The battle with cancer can feel hopeless.

For many, even just getting the diagnosis can feel like the scariest moment in life.

Here are their responses:

1.

Pregnant woman consults with a doctor in an office setting. The woman is in casual attire, while the doctor wears a white coat.

“I found out I had cancer while I was 35 weeks pregnant.

I had visited my doctor 6 times about hard lumps in my neck.

He dismissed my concerns every time and blamed my massive lumps on being pregnant.”

Students sitting in a classroom, with one student in the foreground meditating

“I had lymphoblastic lymphoma (similar to leukemia) when I was a junior in high school.

I ended up going to my state university.”

“July 4th, 2022, the day I will never forget.

A fresh salad with leafy greens, red bell pepper strips, thinly sliced onions, and fig pieces in a white bowl, set on a wooden table in a restaurant

After a minor operation, I was told I had cancer on my pancreas.”

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4.

“I felt fine.

A woman in a green shirt sits at a kitchen table, holding a pencil and looking thoughtful while reviewing papers. Pots with plants are visible in the background

We went out to dinner at a restaurant that was famous for its salads.

“I was diagnosed with breast cancer at 35.

I had a bilateral mastectomy, chemo, reconstruction (twice), and a hysterectomy.

A young child is bending down to smell a pink flower in a garden, holding the flower gently with their hands

So many people called me a ‘survivor’ and celebrated when I was ‘done.'”

“My son was diagnosed with Burkett Lymphoma at the age of 6.

He spent the better part of seven months in the hospital fighting.

A doctor, wearing a white coat and a stethoscope, sits at a desk talking to a patient. The patient's back is to the camera. Medical supplies and a laptop are on the desk

“I noticed a small skin lesion on my foot about eight years ago when I was 28.

I was initially told it was ringworm, then eczema, then a side effect of medication.

Continued: “I had multiple biopsies over the years that came back as dermatitis.

A woman holds her stomach while talking to a doctor in a white coat holding a clipboard

I was so relieved to have a diagnosis, even if it was cancer.

Not knowing [for] all those years was so much worse.”

“I am a childhood leukemia survivor.

A bowl of soup with noodles, meatballs, and herbs garnished on top

My mom’s first cousin has always been a grandmother-like figure in my life.

A couple weeks after my diagnosis, she came over to cook chicken soup from scratch.”

“I am 78 years old and at the age of 70, I was diagnosed with prostate cancer.

An older man with a white beard and mustache wearing a blue shirt is smiling while walking on a treadmill indoors

My heart immediately started pounding and my stomach sank.

The words ‘You have breast cancer’ came out of her mouth and I immediately burst into tears.”

“I was diagnosed with testicular cancer at the age of 40.

A woman with blond hair tied back, wearing a white top and gray apron, is on a phone call outdoors in a relaxed setting with plants in the background. Names unknown

My left one was the size of an orange and was interfering with walking.

As soon as I saw my doctor’s face I knew it wasnt good!”

“I learned I had a cancer mass on my kidney the morning my husband died of skin cancer.

A man and a woman smiling at each other with the woman embracing the man from behind

My daughter found a lump in her breast around the same time; she died after five years.

I am learning how to live alone.”

Anonymous

13.

A healthcare professional gives a mammogram to a patient wearing a gown

“I was diagnosed with breast cancer at 34.

My family and I were (naturally) stunned.

I was single, going to school, and working full time.

A man with short hair and beard is on the phone, looking down pensively while wearing a shirt

I stopped at every step and said ‘I wont let this beat me.’

It will be 20 years in October.”

15.And finally: “May 15th, 2005 was a rough day!

There are some very heavy, and some hopeful, stories here!

Hopefully, for some people, this was a bit therapeutic.

Note: Some submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.