“It was the most lovely selfless gesture.”

Here is what some men shared:

Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.

“She looks me in the eyes and says, ‘We’ll figure it out.

A man and a woman hugging each other warmly in a well-lit room with a red couch in the background

We always do.'”

u/Chemical_Bowler_1727

3.

I spent hours describing it, but I couldnt remember the title for my life.

Billy Crystal holding a tissue box, looking off-screen with a solemn expression in a dimly lit room

When I was just about ready to give up I remembered the title.

I was also so sad that I didnt have the book to show her in person.

About three weeks later, she handed me a wrapped gift.

Two hands gently clasp each other while resting on a bed, suggesting warmth and comfort

When I opened it, it was ‘Glim, The Glorious.'"

u/ChelsieGrinn

4.

“My wife was super helpful taking care of my older mother after she was placed in hospice.”

Two smiling people sit in a car. The person on the left is blurred, while the person on the right is clearly visible, driving the car and laughing

u/Peterd90

5.

“I woke up one morning with her hand on my chest and head on my shoulder.

She said she was having a hard time mentally and that I was her comfort.

A couple lies on a bed, facing each other. The woman is smiling and holding the man's hand, while the man has his back to the camera

Honestly, I just felt warm waking up that way.

u/blondecat85709

6.

Ill never forget that.

Those words meant a lot.

Rest in peace, Larry.

You were the best fucking fish ever.

I understand now why they call them goldfish.

Its because theyre pure gold.

And you, Larry?

Well, you might have just been the most golden of them all.”

u/TheSmokingHorse

8.

“I was having a rough week at work, got home really tired, and took a nap.

u/Netherman13

9.

“I’m not good with events where many people attend.

It drains my social battery faster than you could count to 10.

Even though we are not together anymore, this is still the nicest thing someone ever did for me.

Completely unprompted because I really wanted to see it through for him and didn’t even complain.”

u/OneMorePotion

10.

“My wife always leaves me little love notes around the house.

I love them and have saved every one of them.

It makes my day!”

u/Robby777777

11.

“I remember once being on my last day of work before going on leave.

It was a Friday, and some stuff went down, so I had to finish late.

It bothered me because, in my mind, I imagined myself clocking out at 5 p.m. and celebrating.

I was pretty burned out at that stage, too.

It was just the best.”

“Whoever brushes their teeth first before bed puts toothpaste on the other’s toothbrush and sets it out.

She usually wins.”

u/Distinct-Poet3032

13.

“My partner says ‘Thank you for today’ every night at bed time.”

My heart flutters every time.”

u/style-queen1

15.

“She is a wonderful cook, and the food reminds me of my own grandmother’s cooking.

I dont think she knows how special this is to me.”

u/Shreee_eeeeeeeee

16.

I would marry her again."