So, here’s whatreallywent down after folks cheated on their significant others:
1.
“She did it again but promised things would improve and she wouldn’t do it again.
It turns out she was engaged.”
u/Mr_White_Fam
2.
“She cheated again two years later.
“I got up and tried to communicate with her.
She proceeded to tell me every little detail of her new sex life, including tales of STDs.
She broke up with the guy and tried to reconnect with me last summer.
I avoided her at all costs until she managed to take me by surprise at a festival.
She grabbed me by the shoulders and wanted to talk.
Then I had a full-blown panic attack fuck her.”
u/Jankulasek
3.
They banged, he eventually left her, and of course she wanted to come back.
Unsurprisingly, the whole cycle repeated and now she wants to get back together with me.
Once a cheater, always a cheater it’s just a different mentality with those people.”
u/NarpNarpYarp
4.
“We got back together and accidentally got pregnant.
He left me again (blocked my number) while I was miscarrying.
Lesson heard loud and clear.”
u/MundaneAdvice4217
5.
“To the surprise of absolutely no one, he cheated again (and more brazenly).
So, yeah, the lesson to be learned: NEVER put all your money in joint accounts.
Change the password on bank accounts before you confront someone with their cheating ways.
And maybe don’t confront just leave.”
u/dragonfeet1
6.
“We made amends, he never cheated again, and we stayed together for two more years.
Somewhere within that experience I learned real forgiveness.”
u/lemonaidsssss
7.
I genuinely thought that was the end of that.
Fast-forward, I moved in with him about a year ago to finish up school.
On the long list of things I miss about living alone, ignorance is at the top of it.
u/insidiouspleasure
8.
“I dated a girl who kissed another guy.
She told me about it and said she stopped right after it happened and she was so sorry.
We worked through it and stayed together.
I was not surprised her blowjob game was on another level, and now she liked tossing salad.
Fun girl, terrible girlfriend.”
u/Theykeepbanningme82
9.
“She cheated again not even two years later and left with that mistress.
u/mentallyshrill91
10.
“It ended terribly.
We tried to work it out and ended up breaking up again anyway.
I’m more than confident I was cheated on again as well.
u/Soggy_Elderberry7773
“I went through something similar in an 11-year relationship.
No one should ever expect your relationship to go back to normal after that.”
u/dimsimu
11.
After a year, I found myself saying I wanted my life back.
Found out about the living hell she had gone through and being abandoned by everyone she knew.
He told me that despite what my mother did, he would still have taken her back.”
She knew she had fucked up bad.
u/Pantastic_Studios
12.
“An old friend of mine cheating on their significant other they’re still together 15 years later.
u/MogwaiBuster
13.
I chose to ignore it for some reason, and decided to continue the relationship.
I found out about this on my birthday.”
u/transdva
14.
Our relationship is the best its ever been.
Do I get scared he will do it again?
Sure being cheated on stays with you for life.
So I did the usual: I broke up with her and then told her to never contact me.
She cried and begged me to take her back and promised she would never do it again.
She did this thing on Snapchat where I could track her anytime.
So there we went.”
“After about five months, I caught her lying again.
I asked her the explanation but she preferred to ignore me instead.
So I told her to meet me and I told her to prove her lie to be true.
I have not seen her after that and never wish to, either.
u/suburbanist
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