“Porn has showed me all of my kinks and tricks I do during sex.

The biggest difference between the videos and real life is the communication.”

Everyone’s story is different.

Cate Blanchett and Rooney Mara in "Carol"

You end up doing a peace sign on her pussy .

This is how you get those mind-bender orgasms."

u/_Negativ_Mancy

2.

Megan Thee Stallion in her "Hiss" music video

Saw that once with a lesbian scene."

u/ykey80

3.

“I actually tried this for the first time two nights ago and it worked much better than expected.

Alicia Keys on "The Voice"

For background, my boyfriend and I are both trans men.

But even with no dicks involved, it felt really good to me.

The elation of having him cum like that was really even more exciting than cumming would be.

Taylor Swift at the 2024 GRAMMYs

And just psychologically being held like that felt incredibly hot to me I highly recommend this position!

u/John-Smith12

4.

Pushing someone in heels over and eating it from the back.

Ego Nwodim on "SNL"

u/Nandy-bear

5.

Obviously decided to start gently and kinda feel it out.

Secondly, the same girl has a fairly large clit.

Erika Alexander on "Living Single"

u/Lanoir97

6.

“I learned to pull out when you are about to cum and then go down on her.

Then return to penetration when you’re not peaked so you last longer.”

Annie Murphy on "Schitt's Creek"

u/Lust2228

7.

“The ‘come here’ motion with your fingers on that little spongy spot inside.

You grip your dick by the base, and then use the head to toy her pussy.

Aaliyah in her "Rock the Boat" music video

Master this and youll need to invest in waterproof sheets.”

u/UnclePonch

8.

“We got a Wand and then a clit sucker.

Using either in any position also sends her to outer space, so money well spent.”

u/LineRex

9.

She bends forward and kisses me a lot and makes it very passionate.

One time I randomly rubbed her butthole during, and it drove her wild.

Almost instant orgasm.”

u/sirgoose721

10.

The surprised face she gets is priceless."

u/Main-Ad5113

11.

“A lot of women are turned on by verbal expression.

Dirty talk can be awkward, but sexy sincere talk is very energizing.

Things like that awkward sex talk is laughable.

Things like, ‘Imma bang you so hard,’ or ‘Im gonna f your brains out.’

Its not that hot, ya know (at least not to me).”

u/LieInternational3741

12.

“Her on her stomach on top of a pillow or comforter.

Then you just kinda start.

u/mnl_cntn

13.

“Teasing and pacing when I go down on my partner.

The clit isn’t actual food, so don’t actually eat it.

Slow kisses and passes with gentle pressure, kissing and nibbling the inner thighs.

u/babypowder617

14.

“Honestly porn has showed me all of my kinks and tricks I do during sex.

The big difference between the video and real life is the communication.

u/CarlJung2730

15.And finally, “I would say work until the girl actually cums.

Men in porn always get her there and they cum.

u/irit8in

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