Put that thing away.

There’s nothing wrong with watching porn.

But what I do take issue with are the expectations it puts on women in the bedroom.

A woman looks shocked, mouth wide open, facing another person who is partially out of the frame

That’s why I loved when redditoru/breadnbedasked users,“What has porn normalized that is not quite normal?

“Here are the 16 top-rated responses:

1.

“When the fuck did turning her butthole inside out become a thing?”

A woman with long hair and bangs, looking distressed, covers her face with her hand

No, a horse-sized dick that can stay hard for two hours isn’t normal.

It’s also not needed by any means.”

u/Raigheb

3.

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“Dudes just going as fast as possible with no lube or much foreplay at all.

Most women have awkward or straight-up painful sex from dudes doing this in their early sex life.”

u/Sarcastic_Rocket

4.

Courteney Cox rolls her eyes in an exasperated expression in a scene from a TV show

“Being loud the second someone touches it down there.”

“Being rough without asking for consent, like talking about it beforehand.

Never, ever just choke or grab someone.”

David Morrissey in a dramatic scene, wearing armor, saying, "Let's not get ahead of ourselves."

u/ylaii

6.

“Taking it out the back and putting it in the front.

Never do that unless you want severe infections.”

A woman wearing an elegant outfit and a bold necklace with the text "Count me out."

u/AstralAxis

7.

“That sex begins after about 30 seconds of kissing.

I love making out for a long time before getting into anything else.”

“Men having multiple orgasms, seemingly back to back with no refractory period.”

u/justinsayin

9. u/carrot_alive00

10.

“Women having orgasms by penetration alone.

Not that it is uncommon, but men seem to think thats all it takes.

Some women need a lot of stimulation in other areas!

A dick hammering into me does nothing for me at all.

Also, angles, angles, angles.”

u/Agreeable-Walk1886

12.

“Double penetration.”

u/Small3ggplantEnergy

13.

“Three to four fingers on the clit rubbing up and down as hard and fast as humanly possible.

GENTLE people, slow down.”

u/purpleviola4645

15.

While it can happen, and it’s magical…it’s not the norm.”

u/uncommoncommoner

16.And finally, “Finishing on your partner’s face.

It wasn’t really a thing, or a popular thing the way it seems to be now.”