It’s hard out here.
We recently wrote a post about theworst datesmen and women have ever been on in their lives.
There were a lottttt of shocking stories.
Unfortunately, they inspired the women of theBuzzFeed Communityto share some of their worst first date experiences with men.
Note: Some submissions include topics of anti-gay abuse and harassment.
like proceed with caution.
“I went on a first (and last) evening date years ago.
The sky became dark, and the street lights were spaced apart.
When he asked to see me again, there was no second-guessing that hard ‘no.'”
artisticpizza47
2.
“Earlier this year, I went on a date with a guy I met on Bumble.
I was 23 then, so I felt like I was too young to play stepmom.
This was my third date ever in my life, so I didnt know how to react to that.
dizziestbitch
3.
He insisted I eat food I didn’t want to eat.
Five minutes later he asked if I had any siblings I said no.”
annab4fef789d4
4.
“This guy struck up a conversation with me when I was grocery shopping, and we exchanged numbers.
He then went into a detailed description of everything he wanted to do to me sexually.
I ended the date at that point and thought that was that.
I blocked him after that and thankfully havent seen him since.”
Anonymous
5.
“This happened to my friend.
skipnees
6.
“I went on a date with a man who I met through a dating app.
He then took me to a gentlemans club 30 minutes away.
After the show, he drove us back drunk and speeding in his convertible.
He was messaging other women on the dating app at the same time.
He ended the night by saying, ‘So Ill be hearing from you again?
Because Im such a cool guy, and dates with me are the best.'”
u/[deleted]
7.
So he picked me up and took me to a decent sushi place.
The actual dinner went fine, aside from him being VERY nervous and visibly sweating.
This dude was literally screaming, ‘I love you, yo let me in!!!’
as I politely but quickly went inside I blocked him immediately.”
u/Helpful_Finding78
8.
But on our first date, he asked if I was Catholic.
I said no I wasn’t personally religious, but I had been raised as a Protestant.
He said, ‘Okay, well, dont worry.
Ill talk to the priest on Sunday, and well see what you oughta do.’
That was that."
“I met this guy at a bar (yeah, I know great start).
We exchanged numbers, and the next day, he asked me on a date.
We went to a restaurant, which was nice enough.
He got two drinks there, and I got one.
He asked if I wanted to go play pool somewhere else and get more drinks, and I agreed.
While we played pool, he had three more drinks and watched a basketball game the whole time.
He said I could go and that he’d find a ride.
Two hours later, while I was in bed, he called me asking for a ride home.
Against my better judgment, I picked him up and took him home.
He was very drunk.
Before he got out of the car, he kissed me very sloppily and told me he loved me.
There wasn’t a second date.”
sarahshorthealth
11.
“I got set up on a blind date by a classmate.
He turns to me and says, ‘I’m not gonna call you.
We don’t have anything in common.
lamusica83
12.
“I had a guy ask me about my hopes and dreams.
tonideenz
13.
“He told me his mom would love me and bake me cookies while we robbed banks.
He threw my hand at me and walked away with a loud scoff.”
“I thank my lucky stars I wasnt assaulted that night.
I had no idea that happened in real life, but his calves were truly massive.”
u/QueenNibbler
14.
“This guy thought I was really nice and smart.
I actually had fun until he told me I couldn’t go on ‘dressing like this.’
But we’d still end up in bed together, so he’d keep in contact.
Spoiler alert: we did NOT keep in contact and sleep together.”
u/Joubachi
15.
I got out of the car at a red light and called my sister to pick me up.”
u/Agitated-Mechanic602
16.
“He left halfway through the movie to go meet his dealer.
The only other place to sit was his lap, which he alerted me to.
I chose a crate instead.
Shortly after that, I used our initial agreement to request a ride back home.
The next day, I texted something about feeling we were incompatible and wishing him well.
He said, ‘Your loss.'”
u/jay8996
Note: Some submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.
