Let’s face it, there’s no such thing as a “perfect” relationship.

There’s always going to be something you and your partner will disagree about.

“I had to share some of the best and most insightful responses.

A man and a woman sit on a couch, both looking away from each other with tense expressions, suggesting a disagreement or argument

Here’s what these 17 redditors had to say:

1.

“It isnt always a love story 24/7.”

“That arguing in front of your kids is bad.”

Taylor Swift and Justin Gaston in a scene from the "Love Story" music video, dressed in period costume reminiscent of a Renaissance ball

“That your partner needs to be everything to you.”

“Nobody can be everything, and expecting them to be is selfish.

I have a wonderful, loving, supportive husband who is my best friend.

Bruce Willis and Michelle Pfeiffer from the movie "The Story of Us" sitting in bed, looking angry

But I still have other friends.

I have interests that he doesn’t share, and vice versa.

We aren’t together 24/7.

A man looks slightly backwards at a woman he finds attractive as they pass by each other in a park.

We are separate people, joined at the heart, not the hip.”

u/MbMinx

4.

“Don’t go to bed angry.”

Mindy Kaling says, "My body is very attracted to your body but when you speak my brain gets angry," to a man in a subway station in a scene from "The Mindy Project"

“I am a 66-year-old boomer.

Turns out its a bit more than that.

u/Extension_Many4418

6.

Javi from the television show "Grown-ish", appearing distressed. The text overlay reads, "I just don't think a relationship should be this hard."

“That if you love someone, you’ll never be attracted to someone else.”

“Opposites attract.”

“That it’s crucial that you find someone who is hot.”

A man and woman lying in separate twin beds while holding hands in the space between beds

You want someone who will support you on your hardest days.”

u/Jolly_Llama2820

9.

“That relationships are supposed to be hard.”

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“Communication is key.

Consideration and COMPREHENSION is.

u/Idk312312312

11.

Blanche Devereaux in a kitchen with text saying "We were made for each other," in a scene from "The Golden Girls"

“That you should stay together for the kids.”

u/Squeak_Stormborn

12.

“Sleeping in separate beds means a relationship is on the rocks.”

“The idea that ‘no one is perfect’ means you tolerate poor treatment.”

You do not tolerate: unkindness; them taking out frustrations on you; disrespect; name calling.

There are probably other things on this list.

u/Certain_Mobile1088

14.

“Thats its normal to resent your partner.”

u/seusical0xo

15.

“That you have to share everything and 100% of your history with someone.”

“That you need a partner to complete you.”

u/J120101

17.

“That you’re gonna wanna find ‘the one.'”

Note: Responses have been edited for length/clarity.