“It feels like many women are misinformed about what we find attractive.”

“you’ve got the option to think someone is attractive without being attracted to them.”

u/Accel_Lex

2.

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Maybe youre unhygienic, or you just dont groom yourself, or youre secretly a misogynist.

It has to be something."

“No, thats not necessarily true.

A person wearing a camouflage hat with an American flag patch and a necklace says, "Juliana is very attractive." Background has lush, green vegetation

Assuming that if dating is a struggle for you, you must genuinely be clueless.

The stigma that theyre single because something is wrong with them.

u/NawfSideNative

4.

A man sits on the edge of a bed, holding his head in his hand, appearing distressed. A clock on the wall shows 7:00

“It feels like many women are misinformed about what we find attractive.”

It’s happened to almost every man at some point.

We choose to be distant so we don’t get hurt again.”

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u/Vegetable-Mall-2329

6.

“When I say ‘I dont care’ about something, I truly don’t care.

I dont care if we go to visit your parents or watch grass grow outside.

Two people lying in bed with their feet sticking out from under the blanket

I really want to do whatever makes you happy.”

u/Knautical_J

7.

“Sometimes erections happen and have nothing to do with what we’re seeing or thinking about.

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We really don’t get complimented ever.

I’ve seen some women on here recently claim this isn’t true.

Women are just as responsible as men for men suppressing emotions.”

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u/MartialBob

8.

Were still cool with each other."

“I gave up dating and chasing women years ago.

I was never any good at it and never found it was worth the effort.

They’re baffled when I say it’s difficult for some guys.”

u/chadgalaxy

10.

“That having a hard-on doesn’t always mean I want sex.

After 21 years together, my wife still can’t get her head around that.”

u/Marty_Mac_Fly

12.

“That almost all the shitty things that happen to women at work also happen to men.

We get talked over, talked down to, excluded, ‘mansplained’ to, and underpaid.

“That many of us don’t want to hurt women or make them uncomfortable.

I understand why women feel like this it only takes one shitty man to change someone’s life forever.

So I get you have to be vigilant.

I know I’m not dangerous.

But I also know women have to operate under the assumption I could be dangerous for their own safety.

I get it I just want you to feel safe.”

u/4greatscience

14.

“That men actually have feelings and that men want women to be accountable.”

u/forzamusichoops

15.

“We dont want our girl to be like the girl I like on my Instagram feed.”

“A lot of women I know personally think men love playing mind games.

Think of playing hot or cold because ‘men love mystery.’

One of the dumbest things Ive heard in a long time.”