Let’s go, girls.
Welp, women didn’t hold anything back, and got very candid about their sex lives.
Like, honestly?
A high sex drive is what they deserve!!!
like proceed with caution.
“I went from a high to low then high sex drive with the same husband.
We were still having sex but not often (like, once every few weeks).
It wasn’t something I was excited about.
And I stuck to that I needed to have sex regularly.
It reminded me how much I liked it.
It was hard to ‘find time’ the first few weeks, but then I got into this rhythm.
u/Aiskauda
2.
The relationship was unhealthy, so we eventually broke things off.
I realized it was never a physical issue it was a mental and emotional one.
I like to have sex with someone who pleases me on an emotional level more than anything.
u/either-Act1355
3.
“I received therapy and counseling to heal from the sexual trauma I endured as a child.
u/Just_Veterinarian
“Same, except that my childhood trauma wasn’t sexual in nature.
u/Boragobalm
4.
Also, a womens sexual peak happens in their thirties, so that might account for something.
u/Big-Abalone-6392
5.
“I learned how to pleasure myself and discovered my G-spot.
u/anilorac_mai
6.
“I found erotic novels of great stories filled with drama, feuds, struggle, and war.
There was a lot of build-up in relationships and good character development.
Then, there were high-quality sex scenes that weren’t catered to men like porn is.
u/RisingQueenx
7.
“I found an ‘appropriately sized penis.’
My ex was a bit too well endowed sex would be painful even with lube and foreplay.
I didn’t really realize it could be different.
u/dizardwicks
8.
“I discovered I could actually orgasm.
I mean, my sex drive was never REALLY low, but it wasn’t high, either.
At the start of the pandemic during lockdown, I bought myself some toys.
And for the first time ever at 31 I decided to really try masturbation.
Well, not only could I orgasm after all, but I also discovered I’m a squirter.
u/tigerjess
9. u/Istormedthecastle
10.
“I dated two women in my twenties (one of whom I was married to).
Sex was occasional at best with both of them (I assumed that was just the deal).
Post divorce, I’ve learned that with the right person, sex is regular and fun.
u/thorGOT
11.
“I thought I was asexual until I was around 20 just didnt really like to think about it.
Then one day, happening across some saucy online content, something just snapped.
But, it started even before my treatment.
u/Inevitable_Proof
12.
“I stopped being on birth control then got pregnant (my real hormones are apparently horny).
Got an IUD after having a baby and my sex drive got lower.
Then I got it removed, and my sex drive went through the roof again.”
Never realized how much of a sex drive I actually had and how the pill could affect it.
u/fieryphoenix91
13.
“Realizing I was a lesbian at age 35.
I was previously married to a man (our marriage ended for other reasons).
I always thought I was broken and didnt have a sex drive.
I acted on long-standing attraction to women after my divorce, and…hey, look at that!
Im not broken, theres nothing wrong with me.
I actually have very high sex drive just not for men.”
u/Nosoulinmortgages
14.
“I had a hysterectomy, which resolved my issues with fibroids causing excruciating pain and heavy bleeding.
This, in turn, eliminated the need for birth control.
So in short: No pain + no hormonal contraception = bow chicka wow wow .”
u/TMTPheonix
15. u/cintyhinty
16.
“A doctor actually listened to me missing my periods and did ALL of the tests for polycystic ovaries.
My sex drive has increased drastically.”
I gladly would have humped anything that walked.
Sexual awakening doesn’t even begin to cover it just a total hormonal explosion.”
u/basmati_relish_trail
Note: Some stories have been edited for length and/or clarity.
