Let’s get down to it.

They didn’t hold anythinggggg back and shared some pretty revealing things.

Their secrets ranged from harsh to very valid, but above all, they were extremely eye-opening.

Janelle James on "Abbott Elementary"

“We treat men with kid gloves.

So, we end up coddling all men for our own protection.”

christonacracker

2. kittitude

3.

D'Arcy Carden in "The Good Place"

I don’t think I’ve washed either of them in at least a month, possibly two.

GOTTA MAINTAIN THE INTEGRITY OF THAT ELASTIC."

u/OMGEntitlement

4.

A person holding multiple colorful shopping bags while walking on a city street

“We are just as gross (if not GROSSER) than you are.

From letting huge farts rip and giggling to staring at period clots, yeah…we be nasty.

We’re just better at hiding it and cleaning up the evidence ;).”

A person in a bathrobe is sitting and holding a tampon in their hand, suggesting preparation or discussion around menstrual health

morgan_le_slay

5.

“Im a straight woman, and I think all dicks are ugly.

Even if I like you a lot, its just not exciting to look at.

A man and a woman are standing in a living room. The man appears to be speaking intently, while the woman looks away with a furrowed brow and crossed arms

panda_13

6.

This way, they can pretend they’re having sex with someone else.”

u/Oktapooose

7.

Two pairs of hands, one male and one female, are clasped together over a divorce agreement with two wedding rings and a pen placed on the document

“How much I don’t want them talking to me when I don’t know them.

Most other women don’t either, believe me.”

u/[deleted]

8. rnd13001

9.

A close-up of a person using a yellow razor to shave their leg

I know it will happen eventually, and I know I will completely fall apart when it happens.

But until then, he’s not going to know.

I’m just enjoying it while it lasts."

Three men, unknown identities, are sitting at a table laughing and eating burgers and fries in a casual setting

“I dont tell them my real body count.

His was higher, by the way.

rachelmay

11.

Young woman in bed

“We generally are not impressed by your ham-fisted attempt to play the bass guitar.

Take the non-specific compliment and put the guitar down.”

retrocrebbon

12.

“We have more hair than you might think, and we hide it pretty well.

I’m talking about the stray hairs on our chin, nipples, and butt .”

isaura844

13.

“How much I compare their actions to my father’s.

If I see something too similar, it raises a red flag for me.

I’m married to a great man who is the opposite of my dad.

u/KatilynKat

14.

“I have lunch with an old guy friend of mine.

My boyfriend doesnt know that he works on the same campus as me or that we have lunch.

We dont hook up or flirt, but my boyfriend didnt like him from the first time they met.

u/lolalaughed

15.

“That sometimes I can be jealous of a platonic relationship.

It occurs more with male friends than with female friends.

u/young_s_modulus

16.

“How much I actually cry.

I can think just fine, thank you.

My eyes are just leaking.”

u/ihatewhitepaint

17.

I do it because it feels like putting on armor, another layer of protection against being vulnerable.

10cali90

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