“The number of pats on the back I get from society for doing this is wild.”

Here’s what people said.

“That men should be the ones to make the first move.

Two people holding hands, standing in a field, backlit by the setting sun

Introverts and socially awkward men suffer from this common standard.”

“I am not a fan of the idea that toughness and strength are tied to violence.

I was very lucky to have an uncle who is one of the toughest people I’ve ever met.

Unmade bed with striped bedding and multiple pillows in a bright room, small table and plant near window

u/Misterstaberinde

3.

“That we’re messy.

Seriously, I constantly have to remind my girlfriend to put her stuff away.”

Person cracking an egg into a glass bowl on a kitchen counter with lemons and a measuring cup nearby

But in reality, sometimes we want to take things slow in a relationship.”

u/Mercian-Geezer

5.

“That it’s somehow strange for a man to be close to their parents, especially his mother.

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Anonymous

7.

“That we don’t enjoy fruity drinks.

Ive been made fun of for ordering them.

Adult playfully lifts a child while lying on the floor indoors, both laughing

Even women do it.

u/Nolan-

9.

“That we can’t take care of kids.

Person swinging a golf club on a course at dusk

“We are not uninterested if we dont have sex on the first date.”

u/JohnMcClanesPenis

11.

I don’t like sports or cars.

Two legs are visible resting in a bubble bath with surrounding bathroom decor

I like keeping my house clean.

All people are different.”

“That we must be made of stone 24/7.

Close-up of hands shaping clay on a pottery wheel

Men should be allowed to cry rather than be judged or mocked for seeming weak.”

u/Ryaffus

13.

“That men don’t enjoy things that are comfortable or relaxing.

Person cooking, lifting lid off pot on stove. Kitchen items in background

Man, I love soaking in a hot bath.”

“I am NOT babysitting my children.

They are MY children!”

u/GoblinNumber467

15.

“That we have noemotionsand/or we always have to be the emotional rock.

The truth is that we need emotional support, too.”

u/GandalfTheJaded

16.

“Questions like, ‘Why are you wearing pink?

Youre a guy.’

‘Why are you drinking anything thats not a beer?

Youre a guy.’

‘Why are you in this pottery class?

Youre a guy.’

‘Why did that movie make you tear up?

Youre a guy.’

dannymazda1

18.

“That we don’t know how to cook.

I NEVER understood this one.

Yet the stereotype persists…”