Some of these etiquette “rules” are just completely outdated.

Recently, Reddit useru/AirDeskasked,“Whats a common social etiquette rule you just dont agree with?

“Here are some of the most top-voted answers:

1.

A plate of garlic bread slices on a red and white checkered tablecloth

“Not taking the last piece of food on a sharing platter.

“‘Respect your elders.’

Sorry, a lot of my elders are unrespectable.”

A close-up of a smiling face with a piece of green food stuck between their front teeth

u/joeschmoe86

3.

Im going to be more embarrassed if I get home and see the lipstick on my teeth.

And Im going to be annoyed with you for not mentioning it!”

A woman smiles while playfully refusing a plate with a stack of donuts held out to her

u/werewedreaming316

4.

“Turning down something when you actually want it because its ‘polite.’

u/SimsPocketCamp

6. u/TomPalmer1979

7.

Two women are having a serious conversation at a table in a bright office setting. One woman is facing the camera, and the other is seen from behind

“I hate the idea that it’s possible for you to’t talk about your salary with co-workers.

u/xDWizZz

8. u/redheadedjapanese

9.

“Waiting for people to take photos before walking through.

Person holding phone and smiling while taking a photo in a busy city street with blurred people and colorful decorations in the background

It’s not reasonable to hold up a pavement while you take 17 photos for your Instagram.

I’m going through.”

u/andyrocks

10.

Two people are seated at a dining table, enjoying their meal. The person in focus has long hair and is smiling as they eat. The other is slightly blurred

“Asking ‘how are you?’

and expecting a standard lie in response.”

u/probablynotreallife

11.

A person is writing "thank you!" on a card

“Elbows off the dinner table.”

u/Piememes

12.

“The saying, ‘Don’t speak ill of the dead.'”

Two women are sitting indoors, dressed warmly in winter coats and hats, looking worried

u/Bizarre_Protuberance

13.

“Sending thank you notes to people who attended your loved ones funeral.

You already have enough on your plate, plus youre grieving.

An older man with a beard wears a green beanie and glasses, smiling in a casual indoor setting

It doesnt make any sense to me.”

u/ReasonableAgency7725

14.

“Putting cutlery at the beginning of buffet tables.

It belongs at the end and I die on this hill.”

u/aphrodora

15. u/Goddessviking86

16. u/Existing_Ad4473

17. u/schwenomorph

18.

Obviously, I do not mean emergencies, but you get my gist.”

u/FrailVictorian

19.

“‘Take off your hat, it’s disrespectful!’

Disrespectful to who, and how?”

u/PrecariatiF

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