“In general, I’m comfortable being alone.

Recently, weaskedtheBuzzFeed communityto share their biggest dating dealbreakers.

Here’s what they had to say:

Note: Some submissions are from thisReddit thread.

Gina Rodriguez, LaKeith Stanfield arguing on a street corner in a scene from "Someone Great"

“Communication inconsistencies because that’s a slippery slope to their getting comfy in that zone fast.

Saying you’ll message by a certain period and not doing it.

I get that life gets busy.

Ashton Kutcher and Cameron Diaz, sitting on a couch with arms crossed, looking serious in a scene from "What Happens in Vegas"

It does for everyone but you couldn’t put one sentence communicating that?

The intention/energy doesn’t match the action.

fieldsshannon1740

3.

Close-up photo of a hand with dirty fingernails

“I don’t have an issue dating single dads.

“I hope people understand the difference between being close to your mom and being a mommy’s boy.

you’re free to love her for sure, but the line…

Steve Carell, Leslie Mann sitting in a car together with this mouths open in a scene from "The 40-Year-Old Virgin"

It’s a fine line but it’s there.”

Anonymous

5.

“Dirty hands or fingernails.

Meg Ryan with her jaw dropped in a scene from "When Harry Met Sally"

If your fingernails are dirty I don’t want to see what else is.”

“Anyone who gossips about their ex is an immediate no.

It drives me nuts.

Waiter taking an order at an upscale restaurant

People who gossip to you WILL gossip about you.”

Astrid, Oklahoma

7.

“Honestly, any interaction that feels like work.

A sleepy, gray cat lies sprawled out on a bed, looking relaxed and content

If I say no and they push back, it’s too much work.

If they want to play ‘devil’s advocate’, it’s too much work.

If I feel like I’m doing all of the talking, it’s too much work.

Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey holding a dog in a sweater and talking to Matthew McConaughey in a scene from "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days"

Early dating should be easy and fun.

“I’m a woman and my man can’t be shorter or younger than me.”

Mary, Melbourne, Australia

9.

Jill Scott in a satin robe and Richard T. Jones in dark pajamas while the two sit on opposite ends of the bed in a scene from "Why Did I Get Married?"

“I am monogamous and am clear about that.

Would you be open to polyamory?”

F–K OFF.”

Taraji P. Henson in a black dress holds a bouquet of red roses and a note, standing in a hallway with glass doors in scene from "Acrimony"

u/or_ange_kit_ty

11.

“Being mean or irrationally demanding (i.e.

yelling, condescending, or extreme pickiness) to restaurant staff, servers, or retail staff.

It’s etiquette and respect for others.

Also, would I want to cook a meal for this person?”

“Being immature and celebrity-obsessed.

It’s the biggest ick.”

They’d been sleeping with me for the past 15 or so years.

Bye-bye, a–hole.”

“I’m a pansexual woman; I’m not only attracted to men.

I immediately lose interest.”

redcookie34

15.

“Values are important to me.

Yeah, hard no!

Shows a lack of morals and low work ethic.”

grumpyrocket184

17.“Cheating.

After that, there is no trust.”

“Someone who makes conversation a competition.

Trying to show they are smarter, better, fancier, or know more.

I know some people get nervous, but if you’re kind, you get kindly nervous.

Kind people don’t turn into dicks when they are nervous.

u/helfunk

19.And finally, “In general, I’m comfortable being alone.

Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.