Instant turn off."
Not all opinions below reflect a broad view of sex.
Its so damn unsexy, and makes me feel like an appliance and not a person.
Until then, Im just not really going to give in.
Lack of foreplay means it hurts Im not doing that."
u/IAmNotACanadaGoose
“The kids part is so real it’s stressful.
Talk to him outside of sex the foreplay is just as important as the other stuff.
It’s all the main event.”
u/kimberlyaker18
2.
It made me so self-conscious about being naked around him that I couldnt orgasm.
u/_cakefarts
3.
“He constantly eye-fucks other women when we are in public.
This makes me feel inadequate, disrespected, and quite frankly, creeped out.
Also, all of a sudden his political views on abortion changed.
Im pro-choice, and he knows this.
He was too until…he wasnt?
This made me feel gross.”
I just moved out :)."
“Congrats :).”
u/MomentMurky9782
4.
“Feeling like there’s intention behind every touch/cuddle.
I can never tell when its just cuddling or if its a move towards sex.”
u/Mysterious_Hand4198
“This is the one that absolutely killed it with my ex it started that way.
I felt like he would only touch me if it meant he was gonna have sex.
Then it was no cuddles, no kissing, no touching nothing.
It was only ever when he wanted more.
Makes you feel like an object.”
u/thisiskitta
5.
That kind of ruined it for me."
u/PasLagardere
6.
When Im home and my husband is at work, I do chores without even thinking about it.
Its automatic so I expect the same."
u/pbd1996
“Feel like Im the default parent, housekeeper, and all-around family planner.
u/ResolutionSolution82
7. u/Halfgueyout
8.
Or groping at my pubic area that doesn’t actually really turn me on.
The touching throughout the day and build-up from intimate non-sexual touch is so important.
Also, actually expressing affectionate and loving words.”
u/veronique7
9.
I haven’t spoke to them since :/."
u/picklemeewavyy
10.
“Our couples counselor recommended saying words of appreciation to each other every day to improve our marriage.
Apparently it was supposed to be a compliment.”
u/Looktothecookiee
11.
“Knowing hes been watching porn.
I dont like taking care of a boner someone else gave him.”
u/vrex0922
12.
It was such a turn-off, but my sex drive has since recovered lol."
u/nowronganswersmorty
“This so much this!!
I didn’t sign up for this.”
u/Bookgeekjess
13.
“My ex-partner made me feel like I was his mom instead of his girlfriend.
He was super surprised when I left and threw a ‘big tantrum.'”
u/nonsignifierenon
14.“Honestly?
For some reason he gets bad breath randomly and as soon as he breathes near my nose its ugh.
If Im really in the mood I can ignore it.
u/littlemissmoxie
15.
“Hearing him fart or take a shit dries me up instantly.”
u/Lost_Peaches88
16.
“The 10+ years of remodeling our house.
It’s constantly a mess because he abandons the current project for months for hunting season.
u/Danivelle
“Maam are you married to my ex?
I had no doors on my kitchen cabinets for two fucking years two years.”
u/shamelesstwat
17.
“It just feels like another chore.
He pouts if it’s been a day or two, and heaven forbid I get sick.
He seriously believes I get sick on purpose to ‘spite him.’
I’m not enthusiastic at all, so he knows it’s just to shut him up.
u/Dawn36
18.
“He would scream at video games like a child.
He would call people slurs and cuss at them over small things in the game.
He would just get up and leave the room (one time yelling at me).
So, I’d just take care of him.
The possibility of a bruised ego or him rejecting me yet again wasn’t worth it.”
u/LetsGoAgainEddyy
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