“Nothing boosts your confidence like the love and lust of a good man.”
Redditoru/PhenomenalPancakeasked, “What was the biggest boost you’ve ever received to your sexual confidence?”
and responses prove a little kinky kindness in the bedroom can really go a loooong way.
Here are some of the best responses:
1.
And that kind of gave me permission to actually explore my sexuality with him in a safe way.
We’re engaged now.
I’m happy!"
u/ReasonableMeet1761
3.
“I got called ‘a fucking goddess’ while teasing him.
Felt hot as fuck in that moment.”
Took me by surprise and instantly made me horny."
u/No-012017
5.
I was super red-faced and embarrassed, but it was a huge confidence boost.
Were in a long-term relationship now. "
u/Inner_Rope6667
7.
Had my thumbs stretching out my suspenders after that, LOL."
Still runs my self-esteem years later."
u/hatsnatcher23
9.
“My gf told me Im better at fingering her than she is.
Still think about that sometimes.”
We had just finished and we were trying to catch our breath.
I was able to ride her longer and harder than I have ever done before or after.
u/Kriskao
11.
She asked if I wanted to finish in her mouth, and I happily obliged.
I pulled out from doggy, and she turned around, and I accidentally came literally everywhere.
Her face, her hair, the wall behind her, etc.
She was so impressed.
She said, ‘Oh my god, I have NEVER seen ANYTHING like that in my life.
That was so hot.'"
u/EZkg
13.
Anyways my friends called me Goldilocks after I told them."
“Being married to my husband.
That man makes me feel like the sexiest woman alive.
I used to (and admittedly sometimes still, on the bad days) have really shit confidence.
He has changed how I see myself in so many ways, one of them being my sexual confidence.
Nothing boosts your confidence like the love and lust of a good man.”
u/the_bird_and_the_bee
15.
“A crackhead asked me for a cigarette outside of a liquor store.
I told her no and she said, ‘Eh, Id still let you hit.’
Honestly riding that high three years later.”
I just went off of what you reacted to and played with it.
Then played with it again."
u/Accidental_Taco
17.
“She said, ‘I think it reached my heart.'”
“Had a short fling with a girl.
We were trying new things, and I asked if she ever tried anal.
She said she enjoyed it but wasn’t going to let my Pringle can near her ass.
As an average-sized guy, it made me blush.”
u/MammothWrongdoer1242
19. u/Routine_Ad_2034
21.
That was nice."
“Not long ago, I went on a fishing weekend with my boyfriend.
We’ve been together for 10 years, so we’re definitely not in the honeymoon phase anymore.
I was telling him how good we were together, boner.
How much I like spending time with him, boner.
A random compliment, boner.
I spent the weekend with a man who was hard for me.”
u/givemeanostidbreak
23.
And I knew she was the one."
Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.
