You might be surprised by their answers.
Ask your brother or sister some of these during your next phone call or family visit.
You might be surprised by their answers.
1.What would you change, if anything, about our experience growing up?
2.What do you admire most about Mom and/or Dad?
3.In what ways did Mom or Dad let you down?
4.Whats something you wish you could have told me when we were kids?
Why didnt you tell me then?
5.How could I have been a better sibling to you when we were growing up?
6.Whats your favorite childhood memory of us?
7.Whats the worst fight weve ever had?
8.Who was the first person to break your heart?
9.Were you ever bullied?
Did you ever bully anyone?
10.Whats my most annoying habit or quality?
11.What memory of us still makes you laugh?
12.Do you think our parents had a favorite kid?
If so, who and why?
13.What was your biggest insecurity as a teenager?
14.How did you lose your virginity?
16.If you had a Saturday with no plans, how would you spend it?
17.What event in your life has had the most significant impact on you?
18.What is your biggest worry these days and why?
19.Wheres a place you wish you could live for a few months?
20.Do you consider yourself successful?
21.Whats your hidden talent?
22.Whats one healthy thing you do to manage stress?
And one unhealthy thing?
Do you believe in God or a higher power?
24.Whats something you wish more people knew about you?
25.Whats the social or political cause youre most passionate about?
26.Who would you want to give the eulogy at your funeral?
27.Whats a mean comment someone made about you thats stuck with you to this day?
28.Whats the most rebellious thing youve ever done?
29.When do you feel the most confident?
30.How would you describe your relationship with money?
31.What song or movie scene makes you cry without fail?
32.If salary and experience didnt matter, what job would you most want to have?
34.How do you feel about getting older?
35.Whats something that scares you now that you hope you do before you die?
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