“She told me, sort of.
She ‘needed a break’ and wanted to go on a trip to Mexico with a friend.
Here are the stories people had to share along with some responses from theBuzzFeed Community.
“I met a guy at an Applebee’s bar and we were talking about work.
He told me about the work parties he goes to.
Turns out it was her.
She tried to blame it on me.”
u/16bithockey
2.
While she was in there, her friend told me.
I started dating her friend, and we were together for almost seven years.
u/macmac360
3.
Mark was supposedly out at a client dinner that night.”
lunallee212
4.
I took the paper to work to show a couple of people.
I showed one person, and another coworker walked up and joined the convo.
Her eyes got big, and she said, ‘I know that guy!
I just saw him at a concert holding hands with some girl the other day!'"
luckyangel30
5.
“I checked his Google map history and noticed an address he visited frequently.
I got pictures of him and his woman.
My lawyer appointment is set for Tuesday.”
u/Silent_Wolf_1463
6.
“She told me, sort of.
She ‘needed a break’ and wanted to go on a trip to Mexico with a friend.
u/Beamister
7.
“I was playing with her daughter in the other room.
u/cory140
8.
She shut that shit down quickly, smartly, and was acting dodgy as all shit afterward.
u/Important_Focus2845
9.
“My boyfriend of seven months moved in with me, and we shared a cat.
He said he worked with his dad up north on the weekends…luckily no STI for me!
What an asshole.”
webbeccagoldfish
10.
The only sentence I remember was ‘You have a tongue to die for.'”
u/ftminsc
11.
“The other dude messaged me.
They were coworkers at a pizza shop fuckin’ hell; I helped her get the job.
He thought they were dating cause she stopped having me walk her there/pick her up and shit.
He found out we were still dating and told me.”
u/TyWiggly
12.
There was nothing ‘hypothetical’ about it.”
u/TheCoolestFool7
13.
The post was more than a month old."
u/stuntmanm
14.
His dad knew he was cheating on me and they laughed about it.
u/pricklymae
15. u/beanbagginz
16.
We had been having some tension minor disagreements etc one week.
He responded that he totally forgot and he had a date so would be a bit late.
Claimed in the obviously following argument that ‘we never discussed being exclusive.'"
u/PhiloPhocion
17.
“On deployment I was finally able to make contact home and my son called me Josh.
Thats not my name.”
u/Quietrover
18.
“He asked me what I thought about open relationships.
The only thing I could reply was, ‘just pack your things and leave.
I will get tested for STDs tomorrow and you will pay for it.
After that, I don’t want to see you ever again.'”
u/OneMorePotion
19.
I questioned him about it, and he said they were ‘just friends.'"
u/MPD1987
20.
It was in front of all my friends and everything!"
u/FLEXXMAN33
21.
“She and I studied at different schools at the time.
I was on a school trip in a nearby city.
They were holding hands and hugging each other.
Funny thing is that she knew I was on a school trip there.
She was either too dumb or she just didn’t care.
She went pale, and flew away.
Days later met her to give her all her stuff and she tried to blame me.
u/moralesnery
22.
“He had been distant for months and was seeing me less and less.
He avoided me and didn’t see me on Valentine’s day.
Then I saw a receipt from Build-a-Bear from three days after our anniversary in November.
She also followed a ton of frog meme pages.
She replied and said, ‘Is he cheating on me with your sister?’
u/Bi_Faerie
23.
“She had just gotten a Wiccan spellbook.
I picked it up one day and turned to the bookmarked page.
I checked her pillowcase, and there it was.
Her name and her co-workers name.
He lived in a different city.
I drove down to his house later that night and her car was there.”
u/thedumberjack
24.
Luckily I have a good/different guy now!”
u/OperationBackground2
25.
“I only wear fruit of the loom briefs.
My ex asked me to run to the grocery store for her kids.
I didn’t think anything of it, and went back outside for another load of the groceries.
Again, I only wear fruit of the loom.
u/Dragen34
26.
“His wife called me at four in the morning.
It was not a fun time finding out I was the other woman.”
u/wyntr86
27.
“Tucked my daughter in after getting home from a evening shift.
She asked me who the man with the beard and the hair was that went into my room.”
u/germothedonkey
28.
“She suddenly pretended that we had never dated and acted confused when I asked her about it.
u/petethepianist
29.
“My mate videoed her holding her ankles while he was balls deep in her.
u/TheRealDanPoli
30.
I dont listen to country and we didnt have any lists that I contributed to.
Now, the 19-year-old babysitter really liked country, though.
I asked her about it and she stumbled through a bad lie about her phone malfunctioning.
I didnt say anything to him.
u/IgnorethisIamstupid
31.
“My ex made a post making her new relationship official…while we were still dating.
We followed each other.
It was with the guy best friend she told me not to worry about.
This was months into dating and she still had posts up about our relationship.”
u/AdPrestigious9784
32.
Wasnt the first time she had cheated though but left her after that.
u/Dxnte___
33.
It was my brother.
u/Moist_Asparagus363
34.
“Riding the people mover at Disney.
She said she had to use the bathroom and to go on without her.
I saw her making out with someone she met on Tinder behind my back.”
u/FalseWeeknd
35.
“I booked a vacation and paid for the plane tickets, hotel, etc.
She went without me because my boss canceled my annual leave.
I called HR and managed to go the next day.
u/bananaholster3
36. u/justaguylookingup
37.
“I was married and we have virtually the same first name.
I had gotten a vasectomy a couple of years earlier.”
u/Elan_Morin_Tendronai
38.
“I had a feeling.
Started talking to him, realized he was looking for sex.
Called him and broke it off the next day.
u/szb0163
39. u/AzTT84
40. u/davewhocannotbenamed
41. u/Particular-Natural12
42.
“Through the newspaper no joke.
My ex had that classic ‘dont worry about him’ best friend.
One night, that guy was injured in some kind of spectacular car accident.
Actually that cousin was the cousin of my wife.”
u/CGattuso93
43.
My girlfriend was religious too, but she didnt want to wait and it caused some friction between us.
She had a fresh box of condoms to use in case she got me to change my mind.
u/othersbeforeus
44.
I looked down when I put down my stuff and there it was.
It was the third time.’
I glanced at the date and it was two weeks prior.
I said, ‘So youre sleeping with X huh?’
She said, ‘What?
I said, ‘Well you wrote it right here that you did.
“She swore she didnt do it on purpose; but she did.
Thats the throw in of person she was.
Everything was like that, always trying to frame things like I was the bad guy.
That was her playbook and it took me way longer than I should have to figure that out.
I was just like ‘Whatever.
Im so done.'”
u/orc_philosopher
45. u/Flipflops365
46.
“A mutual friend on Instagram who is an artist drew me cause she said she likes my features.
u/Ok_Sleep_7992
47.
“We were on a road trip for her birthday.
She was driving, and I was using her phone for GPS since mine was messed up.
While I was doing that, she got a text from the guy about seeing her tomorrow.
24 years together down the drain because she’s a lying cheater.”
u/rhett342
48.And finally…“He finally just broke down and told me himself.
I didn’t suspect a thing.
His exact words were: ‘I met someone.
You’re my best friend, and I love you so much, and I hate myself for it…
I just had to come clean.’
And soon after that, he explained that he met her on Match.com.
(Raises even more questions, I know.)
And that they’d been on a few dates.
(Yes, I went.
