This list may surprise you.

Threesomes (77%)

2.

Women receiving oral (54%)

3.

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Romantic sex (52%)

4.

Rough sex (52%)

5.

They offered some interesting insights into why some of these tropes are so popular.

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This serves as a counterweight to the self-doubt enforced by societal expectations.

For numerous women, it goes beyond mere physicality, underscoring the importance of feeling valued and cherished.

This narrative resonates with the preference for adult content that accentuates emotional bonds.

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According to Heidegger, there are many reasons these kinds of fantasies are so popular among cis women.

For others, its a chance to reclaim their sexual desires after having negative or unwanted sexual experiences.

One thing that did surprise Heidegger about the Bloom survey was what wasnoton the list.

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The way they interact with these desires may look different, however.

Generally speaking, cis women report caring more about the context, setting and story, Heidegger said.

This may be due to estrogen-driven folks having moreresponsive desire, as opposed to spontaneous desire, she said.

This is often why many women turn to audio erotica or erotic content made by women.

Contextual pornography can provide a safer avenue for sexual exploration.

When talking about these differences, its important to consider the why behind them, said Heidegger.

In other words, are boys just born to love trucks and the color blue?