When she was thirteen I promised her my wedding dress."

She has gone through phases of wanting short hair, wanting to be a boy, and gettingtattoos.

I have encouraged her as much as I can.

Melissa McCarthy runs in a wedding dress, holding up the skirt, while Kristen Wiig, also in a dress, stands behind her outside a building. Text reads, "It's happening."

I am contributing significantly to the wedding."

At first I agreed but dragged my feet bringing the dress over.

“This dress is yours, with living, breathing memories attached to it.

Close-up of two people exchanging a ring and a bracelet. Both have manicured nails and tattoos on their hands

On the other hand, some people like useru/Usrname52disagreed.

“You’re the asshole,” they commented.

And finally, others brought up other valid points.

Strapless white wedding dress on a black hanger, displayed against a floral wallpaper background in a room with elegant furnishings

“But what are you saving it for?”

“To be donated after you are gone for a stranger to alter into something else?

Your daughter wants to honor you by making your wedding gown into her own.”

Closet with hangers holding various clothing items including a blue denim shirt, a plaid jacket, and other shirts and outerwear

Person in a white suit and sneakers holds hands with a person in a lace wedding dress as they walk down steps outside a grand building

A woman with long dark hair looks to the side with an expression of surprise or confusion. She is wearing a V-neck top