And not having to deal with those men is a privilege."

For the most part, men think I’m ugly, and they leave me alone.

And to me, that’s a privilege."

Split-screen image of Sarah in glasses speaking. Text: "I have ugly privilege because I've talked about it in a few videos and I tend to get a lot of similar responses"

“Men in real life mostly leave me alone,” she says.

And that, to Sarah, is the privilege.

As Sarah puts it, she thinks society has taken a wrong turn somewhere with many men.

Two images of Sarah with long hair and wearing large glasses. The text reads: "Men think I'm ugly, and they leave me alone" and "And to me, that's a privilege"

She told BuzzFeed, “Too many men don’t understand things like boundaries and consent.

And not having to deal withthosemen is a privilege.”

That said, it’s important to understand and not minimize other women’s experiences with men.

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“I’ve never felt that way because I’ve seen my friends get catcalled.

I’ve seen my friends deal with men.

“There are men out there who will do those things to just about anyone,” she says.

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For more content from Sarah, it’s possible for you to follow her onTikTok.

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Split image of a woman with long hair and glasses. Text reads, "it's very rare that I get male attention in real life," "which is why it makes me so freaking uncomfortable when it happens"

A woman with long hair sits on a couch looking pensive, with a man in the background. Both are casually dressed in comfortable clothing

Split image with a woman explaining "ugly privilege." Top text reads, "so I know I've talked a lot about ugly privilege," and "ugly privilege is not some sort of immunity to things like harassment."