Working in the food service industry can be incredibly challenging.

By the end of your shift, you’re left feeling completely worn out!

But along the way, servers have learned a thing or two about dining out.

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“Never order seafood on a Monday.

This is usually a kitchen getting rid of leftover portions from Friday and Saturday.

Dont order steak well done.

A man holding a menu and speaking animatedly.

Most tea urns are FILTHY inside!

If your tea is cloudy, its probably because of the dirty tea urn.

Dont make rude remarks to the waitstaff about food pricing.

A person with red hair, wearing a bucket hat and striped shirt, eats seafood pasta at a waterfront restaurant, smiling playfully at the camera

Otherwise, what’s the point?

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3.

“Its not what I wouldnt order, but how never, ever claim an allergen you dont have.

Man in denim jacket eating sushi with chopsticks

But an allergy is an entirely different matter new knives, cookware, and plating.

As more diners claim an allergy that isnt real, dealing with allergies becomes an onus.

The process remains the same, but resentment builds.

Man in a dress shirt sitting at a restaurant table, looking confused, gesturing towards a waitress, with a plate of food and a glass of drink in front of him

Its okay not to like things you dont need an excuse!”

“Dont order swordfish!

The restaurant I worked at ordered swordfish for a Valentines Day special.

A woman in a restaurant looks surprised while examining her meal with a magnifying glass, holding a spoon in her other hand

6.“Pancakes.

Every morning, the chefs were straining out the cockroaches.

1 I would preorder food if possible.

Close-up of a person's hand pouring syrup onto pancakes topped with banana slices and strawberries at a table with glass of water, fork and knife

2 I would not order a ton of food at once for either myself or my guests.

Patients would be ‘starving,’ but so much food was thrown away.

And it’s trifling to be a visitor expecting to be served at a hospital, and for free.

Elderly woman in a hospital bed, wearing a hospital gown, looking displeased while holding a bowl from her meal tray. Tray includes an apple, water, and mashed food

There’s usually a grocery store and restaurants near hospitals; hit up those before coming.

3 I would NEVER ask why it’s taking so long.

Surprise, surprise, I’m not the only one in this 250-bed hospital ordering food.”

A smiling young girl is leaning her head on her hand while holding a spoon above a bowl of macaroni and cheese

“I was a hostess at a large chain steakhouse about 15 years ago.

The mac and cheese on the kid’s menu is also out of the microwave.

“Never order anything with avocados; almost every time, they’ve been frozen and just unthawed.”

Person in a green apron and black gloves slices avocados on a white cutting board

“Former server and hostess here with a strong background in customer service.

When I go to a restaurant, I always bus the table.

Customers love being addressed by a first name, and so do customer service people.

Two baristas, one man and one woman, behind a counter talking to a customer in a coffee shop. The man is making coffee, others are engaged in conversation

Too often, we as consumers are too busy to take a few moments and notice good service.”

“Say NO to fruit garnish!

Ive worked in multiple establishments over the course of 12 years.

A person in glasses and a beanie smiles while holding a bowl of cereal with berries in a kitchen. Various jars and berries are on the table

Ive seen it all.

Even in fine dining establishments, its not likely that the fruit is cut daily.

Safest option: olives, which are kept in their brine.”

A restaurant server holds a plate with cash, appearing confused. In the background, diners are engaged in conversation

I either escalate the situation or pull the ‘Would you like to speak to the manager?’

I would never, ever be mean to wait staff of any kind.

They’re trying to do their job just like you do yours.”

Person in an apron looks tired, leaning against a counter in a bustling café

“I never snap or clap for a servers attention; that was the worst.

Seriously, this is super annoying, and weve heard it from pretty much every table that day.

Also, this is such a simple one, but I never get ice.

A waitress carries a pot of coffee in a diner, while a man in a suit sits in a booth. Two other people are seated in another booth in the background

The soda is cold from the machine, and ice means less drink.”

“I worked in a restaurant for over five years.

I witnessed customers do so many rude and obnoxious things, sometimes repeatedly, that I would never do.

A person sprinkles salt over a bowl of fresh salad with cucumbers, tomatoes, and basil on a wooden table

Also, never, ever, EVER snap to get the servers attention.

“Id never argue with a staff member, server, bartender, hostess, etc.

Always ask for a manager thats why they’re there; to MANAGE situations.

A server shrugs in confusion while a seated customer gestures with a plate of food. Others dine in the background

They dont cook it!!

If its taking too long to be sat on a Friday night, why argue with the hostess?

They cant just throw people out.

A hand holding a lemon wedge over a small plate with a pickle slice and a fork on a wooden table

No matter who you interact with, BE KIND TO RESTAURANT EMPLOYEES!”

“I never get lemon with my drink.

No lemons for me.”

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