Anyone who has an issue with Selena Gomez’s openness and honesty can respectfully fuck off.

Those are her words, not mine, shared during a recentdinnerwith her little sister, Gracie.

“That was something I had to grieve for a while.”

Selena Gomez at an event, wearing dangling earrings and headphones

“Its not necessarily the way I envisioned it,” she said of potentially having kids.

“I thought it would happen the way it happens for everyone.

[But] Im in a much better place with that.

Selena Gomez poses on a red carpet in an elegant off-shoulder gown with a statement necklace

“But itll look a little different,” she added.

“At the end of the day, I dont care.

Itll be my baby.”

Selena Gomez on the red carpet wearing a stylish dress adorned with large, sparkling floral embellishments around the neckline

“That is not shameful.”

“So yeah, I shared that I cant carry a child.

Yeah, I shared I have bipolar.

Selena Gomez is pictured with wavy hair, wearing a blouse and a leather jacket

Thats what my life is,” Selena stated.

“That’s why I like to be honest because everybody’s going through something.

I don’t have it all put together.

Selena Gomez at an event with her hair down

I’m not…whatever.

I’m me.”

“Thats all I can be.

Selena Gomez attends an event, wearing an off-shoulder dress adorned with rose designs and statement earrings

That is the facts.

Screw anyone who tells you youre a victim.

Youre a survivor in my book,” she added.

Selena Gomez at an event, wearing a pinstriped blazer with a structured, low-cut top, smiling at the camera

You tell them, Selena.

Selena Gomez in a one-shoulder, satin dress, wearing statement earrings at a celebrity event

Selena Gomez speaks at a podium with "When We All Vote" signage, dressed in a floral dress, against a backdrop displaying the same message

Selena Gomez smiling and posing with her hands under her chin, wearing an animal print top