“Getting too comfortable with doing the bare minimum.

Take them on dates and buy them flowers before you wish you could again.”

“Telling my friends about all of our fights.”

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My wife actually taught me this.

u/VermicelliJealous949

3.

“I took a nap one day, she thought I was cheating.

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One big blowup argument later, I found out she was cheating on me.”

u/Aangs-correlation756

4.

“Accommodation to avoid any conflict.

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“Getting too comfortable with doing the bare minimum.

Take them on dates and buy them flowers before you wish you could again.”

u/Cheesy_Whisker

6.

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“Staying quiet waiting for the appropriate time to communicate.”

“I created an unneeded, stressful environment that could have been avoided by just talking it through immediately.

Thought I was doing the right thing by waiting for a better time.”

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u/Own-Being-1973

7.

“Trying to do everything I could to make him more comfortable, to unhealthy extents.

“Ive tanked a lot of relationships by thinking everything needed to be fixed.

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I almost did it in the one Im in.”

Im overly therapised and really thought this was the best way to handle everything.”

u/relentpersist

9. u/KieshaK

10.“Jealousy.

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I made this mistake for years.”

“I once made the mistake of assuming my partner could read my mind.

Eventually, this led to misunderstandings and tension in our relationship.”

u/GlobalBreak311

12.

“Allowing my partner to step back or slack when it comes to big life events.

We purchased a home and I did EVERYTHING.

Our relationship has never been the same.

He had allowed me to do everything for so long but the house situation was a breaking point.”

u/JollyBid477

13.

“Being too clingy.

“Compared everything in our relationship with others.

Trust me, it really is an unhealthy habit.”

u/Dafuq5280

15.

“Not giving them enough space, and not taking space for myself if I felt hurt by something.

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