“That really grinds my gears, I must say.”

Obviously I watch and giggle, sometimes nod my head in agreement.

This Redditthreadlisted many of those things.

Adam DeVine in an office, grimacing with clenched teeth and a tense expression

Here are some of them:

1.

“Never wanting to do anything.”

Me: ‘Would you like to…’ Her: ‘No, that sounds boring.’

A young woman is focused on her phone in a classroom setting, with other students in the background. Names of the individuals are not known

Me: ‘How about…?’

Her: ‘Nah, I don’t want to do that.’

Me: ‘Ok, what would you like to do?’

A woman sits on a bed with her head in her hands, looking distressed. A man sits in the background on the bed, looking away. Their names are unknown

Her: ‘IDK, whatever you want to do.'"

u/Beauvoir_R

2.

“When women take zero initiative.”

Two people having a conversation at a café, holding coffee cups. They are in casual attire, and the setting features a rustic brick wall

u/IronDBZ

3. u/fatbunny23

4.

“Demand princess treatment, but dont reciprocate anything.

I cant treat you like a queen if you dont let me be your king.

A waitress, holding a digital tablet, takes an order from two customers seated in a modern, well-lit restaurant

Entitlement is the turnoff.

u/help1500

6. u/Frequent_Lychee1228

7.

“Gas lighting to think you’re only wrong in every conversation”

8.

“Talks about all their past lovers.”

u/quadzillaa25

9.

“My ex would talk about other guys in front of me.

‘Im just saying, his arms are really hot!’

Ive seen other women do this to guys to try and see how insecure they are or arent.

I cant have any respect for someone who plays games like that.”

“Short, infrequent texts.

Okay okay I get it, Ill fuck off then.

Im not going to carry the relationship, and youre clearly not head over heels.”

u/OhFuuuuuuuuuuuudge

11.

“Getting their relationship expectations from social media.”

u/omnipresent29

12.

“Bad communicator, bad personality, hot and cold personality and mood.

u/Century22nd

13.

“When they are rude to waiters, it’s a total mood killer for me.

If I see that, it has to be a bad day or something or I’m out.”

u/desabrochado

15.

“Playing hard to get.”