As a woman, some of these are icks for me, too, tbh.
“No reciprocation of efforts.”
“Rude and demeaning attitudes.
Like, aggressively rude or demeaning.
That kills it for me.”
u/TattedPastor412
3.
Negativity is another one.
“When a woman doesnt hold herself to the same standard that she holds her man.
u/wesagod
5.
“Lack of clear and effective communication.
If you want or don’t want something, make that excessively clear, with no ambiguity.
u/Edumacator239
7.
“The ones who think they need to cut down every other female they see.
u/jtf3983
9.
For example, I MUST be the one to say ‘good morning’ first.
I’m in my late 40s.
I broke up with my first girlfriend in grade seven over this exact issue.
(Phone calls, not texts, obviously.)
Find an immature fool if you want to play immature, foolish games.”
u/Pimp_Daddy_76
10.
“If they only have guy ‘friends.’
Claims other women are ‘too much drama.’
Coincidentally is always involved in drama and loves gossip.
Always talks about ‘haters’ and ‘fans.'”
“The silent treatment.
Its passive-aggressive, manipulative, whack bullshit.”
u/Additional-Stay-4355
12. u/KeisuketheLoser
13.
“I recently visited Santorini.
“When I feel like I’m putting more effort into the relationship than she is.”
u/captnameless88
15.
“Girls who push you away and then expect to be chased.
Huge ick and generally a red flag that signals you will be expected to do everything in the relationship.
Also, double standards.
That one also reeks of manipulative behavior.
Finally, have a job and be working toward some sort of career.
