“It’s been almost a decade since anyone did something like that for me.”
Have you ever wished your partner did a specific thing for you?
they provided a lot of insights into their needs.
Here’s what they said below.
“Let me have one day a week for myself.
(Context: She owns a small business, and I help her.
We are together almost 24/7.
u/Prestigious-Area4559
3.
“Join me on my random late-night expeditions to the kitchen for a snack.
Plus, it’s the silly, spontaneous moments like these that make for the best memories.
“A good back scratch is amazing.”
u/AltruisticHopes
“We won a cheap ass bamboo back scratcher at a cheap carnival.
It’s the best back scratcher.
My wife and I always said if we get a divorce, we are fighting over the back scratcher.
We laughed every time we said it.
I guess I won.
We had 30 years together.
I think good thoughts of her when I use it.”
u/smokin_monkey
5.
“Let me be the little spoon.”
“Initiate stuff more (I dont mean just sexually).
My last serious relationship ended because I realized I was the only one who put effort into doing stuff.
The next partner I have, I want both of us to put effort in.”
u/myersmatt
7.
“Lie still when shes sleeping.
Sometimes, its like sleeping next to a printing press.”
“How she touches me non-sexually.
A gentle touch when she walks by me.
I would love some compliments sometimes, but dreams are often just that, dreams.”
u/Mysterious-North-551
9.
“Make a pillow fort together.”
“Come to my place more.
Its way nicer than hers, but she likes having her own comforts.
u/Ok-Exchange5756
11.
“Take time for herself.
We have a child, and she works hard and is a great mother.
“Be more nice to herself when she makes a mistake or something goes wrong.
u/BainzXoXo
13.
“Cook something specifically for me.
It’s been almost a decade since anyone did something like that for me.”
“Have a genuine, real answer as to where we eat out.”
u/CannibalismIsOk
15.
“Pull her own hair out of the plug.”
