Here’s what they shared:

1.

“I had someone offer me their single, slightly damp towel as my post-shower option.

He had no other towels not a single one I asked.

Bottle of liquid soap casting a shadow on a surface

I opted to go home for my shower and be a bit late to work.

u/laurenderson

2.

“Hand soap in the bathroom.

A variety of houseplants on a windowsill with a snowy view outside

I befriended a guy who did not have hand soap.

I bought some and left it there just a regular-sized bottle.

So yeah, hand soap.”

Five used frying pans hanging on a kitchen wall rack

u/similarboobs

3.

“A plunger in the bathroom.

I dont care WHO you are; toilets get clogged.

Person selecting a spice container from a carousel on a kitchen counter

Nothing is more horrifying than when it happens at another person’s house with no plunger in sight.

Ask me how I know.”

u/RavishingRedRN

4.“Plants.

Person opening curtains to look out window, backlit with a warm glow, suggesting a new beginning or fresh start

They are the next best thing to having a pet.

u/4th_chakra

5.

“I will add this small yet important thing guys tend to miss: a clean dish rack.

Person scrubbing a toilet with a brush, wearing a yellow glove, indicating cleanliness and hygiene

u/botng

6.

“The kitchen is reasonably stocked with equipment.

I understand being low on food I am often scant in that department.

Man smiling while making a bed near a window with a view

It makes coming over for cooking dates much easier.

you’re able to find all this stuff at Goodwill, so there’s no excuse.”

u/Awkward-Swimmer3296

7.

a single wrapped condom

“A waste basket in the washroom within arm’s reach of the toilet.

Especially if there is a plastic bag lining it.”

u/eremophilaalpestris

8.“Spices.

Person's hand is petting a content orange and white cat's head

It was an equitable split.

u/Hereibe

9.

“An affectionate, well-behaved pet!

Close-up of a person flossing their teeth

u/But_what_if_I_fly

10.

“The bar is so low.

There were so many other red flags.”

Person holding a laundry basket, focusing on shared household chores

Maybe a throw blanket on the sofa.

I always want a blanket; it just adds to the coziness.”

u/Forsaken-Confusion89

11.

“Books or intellectual pursuits.

Seeing a collection of books or evidence of intellectual interests can be attractive and suggest depth and curiosity.”

u/blacketpazy

12. u/Mirawenya

13.

“Stuff on the walls.

I check out r/MaleLivingSpace sometimes, and so many of the most upvoted posts look like Airbnbs.

So much effort has gone in, but they don’t actually feel like someone lives there.”

“Have something sentimental.

It doesn’t matter what it is, but something that has personal value is always a good sign.

It shows you’re a real person with a real lived-in space.”

u/FutureCookies

14.

“His bed is made, and there’s not a thin layer of dust covering every surface.”

u/Many-Patient2894

15.

“Good cable management .”

u/Bromanian-chronicles

16.“Condoms.

Huge green flag, IMO.”

u/1996Leet

17.

“A well-stocked fridge.

u/kataherikan

18.

Dogs are great, but they’ll generally accept affection anytime.

u/silentsam2325

19.

“A comforter set and at least the mattress off the floor.

If your mattress is on the floor with a lone blanket and pillow, no.

I’d walk out.

I can do without a headboard, but you need a bed frame and a comforter set.”

u/Neat-Stand-5316

20.“FLOSS!”

u/Chemicalhaze

21.“Skincare.

“A basket for dirty laundry and not just random stinking piles of clothes everywhere.”

It’s nice to see that thought went into his purchases.”

u/BlueTowel702

Note: Submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.