Here is what some of women shared:
1.
“He had boxed action figures and cheap collectibles EVERYWHERE.
He had an entire hallway from floor to ceiling with mass-made boxed collectibles.
I felt so claustrophobic and uncomfortable with THOUSANDS of eyes staring at me.
I never went back there.”
“Finding questionably dirty or clean glasses and plates hidden in the closet, etc.
Were engaged now, and I told him that shit stops there.
Amanda, 34
3.
“I had a friend in college who had the most disgusting house.
He lived with his parents, and they were nasty.
However, he got a lot of women because of his looks.
The porch had about 12 garbage bags torn up from the cats second red flag.
I walked in, and there was a paper towel on the floor.
I picked it up, and there was vomit or dog shit.
It looked three weeks old.
We went into his room while waiting for dinner, a bad idea.
He had an aquarium full of dead fish!
At dinner, we ate spaghetti.
I was trying to be polite and ate as much as possible.
I got down to the bottom of the plate, and it started tasting like peppermint.
Alas, there was a peppermint candy stuck to the plate.
I never went back there and ghosted him after that.”
“I dated a guy with a cheap fake black leather couch.
The ‘leather’ was literally coming off in little pieces.
He was also a mattress-on-the-floor guy at age 38.
If I didn’t wash his sheets for him they weren’t getting clean.
His tub was nasty and I had to scrub it before I would give his son a bath.
I wasn’t in that relationship very long.”
onajourny76
5.
“I showered and noticed his dental floss sticking to the wall.
I later learned that its a daily routine, and sometimes, he forgets to grab it.”
I shouldve considered this a red flag, but I didnt and stayed with him for months after that.
When I tried to wake him up and tell him, he told me I was imagining things.
Abby, 26
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Tammy, 43
8.
“So many sex toys.
It looked like an NC-17 museum.
Then he ghosted me, and tbh, good riddance.”
moonlitrat
9.
“He had piles of Victorias Secret catalogs very, very worn ones.
He wasnt wearing anything from the catalogs, to say the least.
The room was, unsurprisingly, a mess.
Anonymous
10.
“He had stuff EVERYWHERE from filthy laundry to multiple hairbrushes loaded with hair to food laying out.
His white bedsheets also had mysterious stains on them.
To top it off, he had a mirror on the ceiling.
I left very quickly.”
“In college, I dated a guy who seemed normal until I went to his apartment.
I walked into his room, and there were pictures of himself pasted ALL OVER the walls.
I mean everywhere, and even some where other people had been cut out.
No, thank you.”
Jamie, 34
12.
“He is a super nice guy.
He would give his shirt off his back for you and love you with all he has.
He couldnt take a hint to clean up for my next visit.
AA, 30
13.
“A guy invited me to his place to watch a movie.
He didn’t have a bed or couch, just a mattress on the floor.
We sat on the carpeted floor to watch the film.
As soon as I sat down, I realized the carpet was crusty.
As in, stiff, and bits of something were flaking off on touch.
I made an excuse to leave.
Not interested in sitting on mystery crust for two hours.”
Jess
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“I went on a date years ago with a guy who seemed super nice and a bit shy.
He was on the short side but had a very handsome face.
He had some health problems in the past, and he had overcome them.
The dinner was pleasant.
The conversation was easy.
He seemed like the least threatening person.
I went to his house for a drink because everything seemed on the up and up and normal.
He was showing me his place, and it was nice enough.
He was doing some remodeling and fixing things up.
And he told me that he was hoping to buy a boat soon.
He wanted to show me the brochures.
He seemed innocent enough, and they were in his bedroom.”
“Honestly, the conversation was innocent enough, and the boats looked cool.
The bed had a shiny satin bedspread.
He was legit nerding over the boat features and wanted to show it off.
He made no moves on me at all.
He was a total gentleman and acted like the decor and camera were no big deal.
I finished my drink and thanked him for a lovely evening.
Without looking like I was panicking, I got out of there and never returned his calls!”
Amy, 48
15.
Its nice to be sentimental, but it was the least sexy bedroom Ive ever seen!
Its okay to remember the past fondly, but this felt like he was living in it.
What 32-year-old man has a dinosaur-print blanket on his bed?
At least keep that stuff in the guest room…”
Jane, 29
