“I would have been better equipped to handle life’s ups and downs.

I never learned how to eat nutritiously or cook, so I live on quick meals.

2.“Therapy.

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I regret waiting so long to take that first step to find the right therapist for my issues.”

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3.

I now use salt water to rinse my gums and a gentle toothpaste and soft-bristle brush for my teeth.

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I do this routine twice daily, which takes me about eight minutes.

Give a damn about your oral care it’ll save you so much pain and money over time!”

I dabbled in my 20s and made stretching a daily morning habit in my 30s.

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My regime has kept me upright and vertical despite my back and joint issues.

It’s the best accidental habit I made."

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5.

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“Using sunscreen for skin cancer concerns, for sure.

But on a more shallow note, using it to help with skin wrinkles, texture, etc.

I also wish I’d started using tretinoin in my skincare routine much, much earlier.”

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6.“Sobriety.

Ideally, I would have never started drinking; I wasted 20 years with booze.

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7.

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“Taking time off work.

I used to take a week off every six months, but I’d burned out in between.

Now, I attempt to take at least a day off every five or six weeks.

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I also take a week off once a year to do all my annual medical checkups.

Additionally, I’m more likely to call in sick than I used to be.

8.“Take.

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9.

“I wish I’d realized how important fiber is.

I realized the hard way how important your digestive and gut health is.

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“I was just diagnosed with ADHD and OCD in addition to my already-diagnosed anxiety and depression.

At 48, this was a shock, but at the same time, it wasn’t.

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11.

“I wish I’d pursued the hobbies and extracurriculars I wanted to when I was younger.

Now, I go to salsa dancing classes and have tried out tap dancing.

It’s not cheerleading or ballet, but I feel like I can take up space now.”

“I wish I’d worked on healing some of the shit from my childhood abuse sooner.

I tried but got discouraged.

Take care of your mental health; don’t distract yourself and pretend it’s all okay.

Sometimes, it’s not.”

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13.

I was mercilessly bullied in gym class in the ’80s, so I thought I hated physical activity.

It turns out that I really enjoy hiking, biking, all kinds of water activities, and more.

But I didn’t discover that until my 40s, so my body isn’t always on board.

Find an enjoyable way to move your body while you’re young!”

“In terms of friendships, I should have practiced quality over quantity.

“I wish I’d rejected diet culture and ate more food.

I wasted decades in a fog of hunger, thinking that’s how things were supposed to be.

16.Lastly: “I wish I had started reading more when I was younger.

I always hated school, so it made me abstain from reading.

The older I got, the more insecure I felt whenever I conversed with people my age.

and started reading it.

This is going to sound dramatic, but it changed my life for the better.

At 51 years old, I realized that reading can be fun and that there are books about everything.

I read a lot of sci-fi and historical fiction, which helped my imagination, vocabulary, and self-esteem.

Books are important!”