I won’t admit how many times I’ve canceled plans so my dog won’t be lonely.

Before I know it, I’m overcome with guilt and driving back home.

Even as I write this, my dog is curled up next to me.

author's dog with caption, "my dog (cannoli)" "I'm supposed to leave THIS face???"

I know I’m not the only one who goes through this.

u/cuter_than_thee

“I have two dogs, and they keep each other company.”

u/FreetheVs

“Another dog!

Two dogs, one large and black, one small and white with brown spots, sitting amongst houseplants

We let her pick out a brother, and they have such an amazing friendship.

They, in fact, were not.

Slept the whole damn time.”

Dog lying on its side next to a security camera on a woven rug indoors

It made me feel a lot better about leaving him.

He’s just chillin'."

I’ve anxiously rushed home many, many times only to find my dog sleeping peacefully on the couch.

A smiling person standing, interacting with a happy dog by a house entrance

He needs to be conditioned to your absence.

You do not want to create separation anxiety in your dog.

He is going to be fine without you there.

He will just sleep and be very happy to see you when you come home."

u/kygrandma

“You’ve just got to get over it.

It’s not the end of the world.

Your dog will be fine.

It’s important that you are able to live your life as well.

It’s important dogs are used to being home alone in case something comes up.”

u/tmntmikey80

They have a point!

u/Sugar_tts

“I console myself with the fact that he lives a better life than most dogs.

I mean, I still feel guilty, but that’s what helps most. "

u/spykid

“I just think of all the love and kisses I’ll get when I get back!”

Try baby steps where youll get confirmation that hes okay.

Its good to start small and build up more confidence slowly over time.

Its okay that we love our pups so hard!”

Mentally stimulate your dog with toys like treat puzzles or lick pads.

Try leaving on the TV or radio so they don’t feel as alone.