The only time I didn’t have a drink in my hand was when I was riding a bull.

My name’s Morgan, and I write about Black culture and all things entertainment for a living.

So, when it came to finally getting into the real clubs at 21, I was fully prepared.

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In fact, I was really excited to embrace this new decade of my life.

But after recently turning 34, I noticed a few changes.

I can’t hang like I used to!

A woman taking a selfie indoors, wearing a cropped T-shirt with text, jeans, and sneakers. She is making a peace sign and pursing her lips

Partying from sun up to sun down without a nap?

Girl, where?!

Hangovers would last a couple of hours max back in the day.

A person wearing a blindfold is seen with the text "Thirty and flirty and thriving" displayed on the screen

Nowadays, they last the entire day.

But that’s another reason why I wanted to put myself to the test.

Outcome: Successful!

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As soon as we arrived, we grabbed the tequila and got to work!

We were surprisingly able to turn things up a notch because the tasting included bottomless prosecco!

This place was so cute.

Two men in athletic jackets and sunglasses are dancing enthusiastically in front of a map. One has "Italia" written on his jacket. Names unknown

The walls were lined with bottles of wine and champagne.

They also had this really cool machine that allowed you to extend your tasting needs.

Lucky for me, mixed in with the reds and whites was one bottle of 1800 Tequila.

Issa Rae, with a short bob haircut, and Yvonne Orji are talking in a dimly lit setting. Text reads, "Oh she said be on your worst behavior."

So, my wine tasting turned into a tequila tasting.

I can’t tell you how excited I was for this show.

Baby, we had a time!

Hotel room desk area with a lit lamp, items on the desk include a green bag, water bottle, snacks, and a TV mounted on the wall with various displayed content

And all of the ladies put on one hell of a show!

There was dancing, laughter, and a ton of nostalgia.

Ugh, I truly love live performances of any kind.

A woman wearing a green bikini is taking selfies. In the left image, she is on the ground; in the right, she is in a pool drinking a beverage

After the show, we walked the boardwalk for food and, of course, more drinks!

Somehow those drinks led me to riding a mechanical bull.

Y’all, I barely lasted 20 seconds!

A sophisticated bar features an extensive wine display and well-arranged glassware. Below, champagne is being poured into multiple glasses, suggesting a celebratory event

I’m definitely going to go back and redeem myself.

They’re known for their HUGE portions and the unique spin they put on common dishes.

My taste buds were in heaven.

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After brunch, we headed to a pool party atHQ2 Beachclub,where Shaboozey performed.

He had the crowd moving and vibing to his music.

He really set the tone for the party.

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They even gave me a birthday sash and more to celebrate my big day.

It was such a sweet and unexpected surprise.

My 30-plus people, don’t be afraid to take a nap.

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They really hit the spot every single time.

The only mistake I made was going into my next drink order blind.

Let me tell you something, this drink felt like a slap to the face.

On the left, people toast with drinks. On the right, a person rides a mechanical bull at an indoor venue. Neon sign "Taco" visible in the background

It might look innocent, but that drink is not for the weak.

I blame the limoncello.

The design of it was so cool.

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I’d never seen anything like it.

This time around, I did not.

They’re also known for their wild pizza creations, and my tongue couldn’t have been happier.

T.I. (wearing camo pants and gray shirt) performs on stage, T.I. & Tiny streaming on screen. Matt Rife (green shirt and shorts) laughs and engages nearby

Overall, my birthday weekend was amazing!

Each day was filled with laughter and love.

There was one literally in my hotel.

Woman in a bikini poses playfully in front of "HQ² Beach Club" flower wall; right: exterior view of a modern building and pool area with umbrellas and lounge chairs

Janelle James smiles, wearing a blazer, with white text overlay saying "WHO WOUDA THOUGHT?"

A three-panel image showing a lobster dish, a cocktail with a cherry garnish, and a plated meal with arugula and grilled items

A hand holding a glass of a pale yellow cocktail, with a table setting including a candle, plates with food, including a slice of pizza and a fried item

An outdoor pool area with lounge chairs and umbrellas beside a building with large glass windows, reflecting a spacious and vibrant atmosphere

A spacious casino floor with rows of slot machines and intricate, colorful carpet patterns. Large ceiling decorations are prominently hung above

Several slices of pizza with various toppings on white paper plates are on a wooden table. A QR code is visible. There are drinks in plastic bottles

A counter with a frosty drink dispenser and a lightbox sign that reads "HBD MORGAN."