“My breaking point was last week when he came home with the food I made him.
He recently got a promotion at his company and moved to a different department.
In this department, he recently started interacting with a (female, 24).
I dislike her and have from the start.”
“Every time I’m there, she makes sure to call him her work husband.
Or she will do simple things such as making him food or giving him extra tight hugs.”
“So I ignored it until he threw away the food I made him.
I woke up at 6 a.m. just to make him his favorite food.
But ever since then, this has been happening every day, and it started to get annoying.”
“Until today, I decided not to make him lunch.
He came downstairs in the morning to me making breakfast and asked me where his lunch was.
I said I didn’t make him one because it was going to go to waste anyway.
He started arguing that I was being petty over a little thing.
I tried to discuss how I felt, and he went over it.
So am I the asshole for not making him food?”
“My wife only makes mine occasionally.
If he doesn’t like it, tough luck, he needs to realize he’s upsetting you.”
He should not be more worried about hurting a coworker’s feelings than disrespecting his marriage.
Userfubar_68felt even more strongly, and called for a divorce.
“I would divorce him if I was in your shoes.
He’s having an emotional affair.
I would tell him you are seeing a lawyer.
Start doing divorce research, print it out, and let him find it.”
“You have every right to feel uncomfortable with this arrangement.
