You will get back to yourself, even though it doesn’t feel like it right now.'"

Hi, I’m Hannah, and I’m afirst-time momto a 7-month-old girl named Ellie.

While I’m only seven months into this journey, sometimes it feels more like seven years .

Me lying with my daughter while she drinks a bottle

Being a first-time parent is a gigantic learning curve…one that seemingly never ends.

But as I look back on the past weeks and months, a handful of lessons really stand out.

I am certainly no expert (see above, re: 5 bajillion mistakes).

Me holding my sleeping daughter

And by no means do I have anything figured out.

I’m just a mama taking this whole parenthood thing step-by-step.

Hopefully, the following makes you feel a little more supported in your journey!

Feeding my baby a bottle with the help of my dog

1.Not giving myself enough grace in the throes of the newborn days.

2.Worrying that I was “spoiling” my baby.

3.Fixating so much on naps.

A spoon in a tub of ice cream in someone's lap

4.Comparing my baby with other babies.

5.Obsessing over my baby’s sleep (or lack thereof).

6.Paying way too much attention to milestones.

A woman holding a baby

7.Trying to thrive instead of survive.

8.Not paying better attention to wake windows.

9.Overthinking and weighing too many opinions.

A baby sleeping in her crib

10.Not going with my gut.

11.Buying way too many baby clothes.

12.Spending too much time on Google.

Two babies playing together

13.Blaming myself when I couldn’t soothe my baby.

14.Being afraid of my baby crying in public.

15.Stressing too much about a “schedule.”

A mother and son sleeping on bed

An infant playing with blocks above a crib

A man holding a newborn

A baby girl yawning

Women with babies on a bench

Woman breastfeeding baby in bed

Tiny pink baby shoes

Carrie Bradshaw in front of a laptop

A mother comforting a baby

A baby sleeping outside at a cafe

A baby holding a bottle