“Some men do these things, but too often, I see these things neglected by men.”
“See us as actual people!
Not laborers, not child pushers, not sex objects, just as people.”
“Chores, and without asking what needs to be done or acting like it’s a favor.
Be the secretary of your own life.
Stop pilinginvisible laboronto those around you.
Anticipate your partner’s needs rather than waiting for them to ask.
Women do this constantly, and men often seem oblivious.”
u/Manifest_something
3.
“Work on their emotional intelligence.”
u/MSMIT0
4.
“Giving non-sexual compliments.
“Hygiene, simple.
Im tired of smelling men who smell musty or overpowering cologne.
IT DOESNT HURT TO WASH YOUR ASS AND TO verify YOURE CLEAN!”
u/Thebeautyplug_
6.
“Go to therapy.
Be curious about how you could grow and heal.
Figure out what makes your partner feel loved and prioritize that.
Quality time, gifts, acts of service, words of affirmation.
Whatever it is, figure out how to provide that to the person in your life.”
“Put the toilet seat down, lol.”
Some men do these things, but too often, I see these things neglected by men.”
“The fucking dishes.
Im so god damn sick of being the only one who does the dishes.”
u/llamalover365
10.
“Randomly surprise me with flowers or just small thoughtful gestures.”
“Just admitting or even recognizing when THEY are contributing to or causing a problem with an interpersonal relationship.
u/cdcrocks
12.
So not true to call us high maintenance when we are that easy to yo.”
u/penguinsouth
13.
“Text back in a timely manner.”
“Stop thinking that just because a woman says hello in passing that she ‘wants you.’
If you offer to pay for something and she says no, just move on.
Stop taking a NO as a personal attack on you.
u/Grouchy-Tax4467
15.
“‘Women are nags.’
Men don’t nag cause they don’t SEE.
They don’t see the dirty clothes on the floor.
They don’t SEE that they need to go to therapy.
They don’t SEE that their lack of emotional intelligence is trash.
OPEN YOUR GODDAM EYES, and you’ll wonder why I didn’t nag more.”
u/spruker
16.
“Understand that keeping women is harder than the leadup to sex.
It’s just so jarring and feels super disrespectful.
I don’t even mean buy me flowers and wear a suit on every date.
You don’t.”
“Putting effort into their relationships!
Not just the romantic ones but also friendships and familial bonds.
They would be less lonely if they did.”
u/AntiSaudiAktion
18.
“Vote for candidates that support women and their rights.
have a go at understand the experience of women.
Men have a lot of privilege and seem so oblivious to what others struggle with sometimes.”
19.And finally, “To not be afraid of telling the truth.
Working on their own issues and knowing their own self worth so they can be trusted partners.
