“Picky eaters are a HUGE turnoff.

“The ability to be silly or ‘commit to the bit.’

Nothing turns me on more than a woman who clearly has her shit together and is extremely smart.”

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3.“Kindness.

“When they take your movie/music/book recommendations seriously!

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5.

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Or at least, don’t talk unreserved shit about them.

It’s actually uncommon for only one person to be entirely wrong or fathomably unreasonable in a relationship.

I like when people demonstrate that they can take responsibility, critique themselves, and understand other perspectives.”

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7.

“Magnanimity and showing empathy when things don’t go their way.

It’s a good sign when someone is accepting and doesn’t take things too personally.

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“They smile and give you eye-contact when we’re talking.

It makes me feel important and seen.”

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9.

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“Someone who puts the needs of others before their own.

Sensitivity is the most attractive thing to me now.

Someone who’s in touch with their feelings and is interested in the feelings of others.”

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“When they’re interested in something you’re passionate about just because it’syourinterest.

It’s so attractive.”

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11.

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“They enjoy reading books.”

“When people are understanding of those who have disabilities.

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13.

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“When they’re just a decent human being.

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15.

“The ability to adapt to any situation and not allow adversity to get to them.

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That’s a huge green flag for me.”

“People who do the right thing even if it makes them look bad.

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17.

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“Asking questions out of curiosity instead of inquisition.

There are few things better than sharing something you like with someone you’re interested in.”

“Having a pet and loving and taking wonderful care of it.

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It’s a major green flag.”

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19.

“A random green flag is people who are down to eat any and all types of food.

If other cultures can eat it, we can at least try it.

Picky eaters are a HUGE turnoff.

If you’re difficult about food, then what else are you difficult about in life?”

“Being mindful of their words when they’re angry.

It happens a lot.

No matter where I am, kids and small animals find me like I’m a Disney princess.

The animals don’t find me as much anymore, but kids always go up to me.

I don’t know, but it can’t be explained.”