“Do not do this.

It is a vicious cycle that takes years or decades to end.”

Here are some of the valuable life lessons they mentioned.

A person with braces and glasses, wearing a white shirt, smiling and flossing their teeth in front of a mirror

“Take really good care of your teeth.

In general, don’t abuse your health.

“Take that trip with friends and close ones.”

Two people smile and laugh at an outdoor party under colorful flags. One holds a drink, and others chat nearby

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“This one hundred percent.

Imagine how foolish I feel.

‘Sorry guys, I can’t come with you on this once-in-a-lifetime worldview-changing trip.

A woman in a white shirt with curly hair sits at a desk with a laptop, phone, and notebook, looking stressed while holding her glasses

I’ve got to deliver pizzas.’

No amount of money can buy a second of time.

u/PunkPizzaVooDoo

3.

A hiker in a hat and backpack drinks water from a bottle while standing in a sunlit forest

“Your thirties feel like half as long as your twenties.

Start them well.”

Do yoga, go to the gym, walk, run your health is the most precious thing.

People at a networking event, holding cups and engaging in conversation. Others in the background are also mingling and chatting

And don’t hold grudges; life is too short for unnecessaryemotions.”

u/just_now_2021

5.

“You will fail, and that is okay.”

A woman sits on a bed with her head in her hands, appearing upset. A man is sitting in the background, looking at her with a concerned expression

“Do not fear turning 30 that’s where life begins.

Everything before 30 is just your backstory.”

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7.

A person smiling and playing an electric guitar while sitting on a sofa in a cozy living room with a mirror and plants in the background

“Drink more water.

“Call off work.

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“This one.

A woman reviewing a receipt while using a calculator, with documents spread out on a table

Go to that air show, concert, or event.

Perfect attendance to schoolorto work should be a badge of shame.

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9.

A joyful couple on their wedding day laughing together. The bride is holding a bouquet, and the groom is wearing a suit with a red bow tie

“The age-old story of who you know is more important than what you know.

Your education should be done in conjunction with socializing and spending time with other people (networking).

So don’t live your life behind a screen.”

Two unidentified women in a counseling session, one speaking with hands gesturing, the other listening and taking notes

“Live now, but don’t forget the future.

you could live now with 80% of your income, too.”

u/the-hellrider

11.

A man and woman sit on a couch looking distressed, with drinks on the table in front of them. They appear to be having a serious conversation or argument

“Do no harm, but take no shit.

Do what needs to be done and have fun in the process.”

We (I’m in the young crowd) are too young to suffer all day.

Six friends enjoy pizza and wine in a cozy setting, laughing and chatting around a table. A string of lights is visible in the background

Enjoy what you do.”

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13.

“Your life isn’t ‘over’ at whatever imagined line in the sand you think it is.

Find the love of your life, change careers, learn new skills, etc.”

“Contrary to popular belief, dating in your 30s is way better than in your 20s.

There are way fewer games.

People know what they want.

Partners have done cool shit by this point in life, so just talking about life is more enjoyable.

u/PsychonautAlpha

15.

“Invest your money, and save at least 15% of every dollar you earn.”

“Learn how to cook decently.

Get a few decent recipes locked in, and you’re free to experiment later.

It’ll save you a lot of money not ordering delivery all the time.”

u/clem9796

17.

“Don’t get married until you’re over 30.

The amount of divorced friends with/without kids is wild.

Maybe one in five are still together.”

It is a vicious cycle that takes years or decades to end.

It also comes with a shit credit score and the unneeded stress of living paycheck to paycheck.”

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19.

“See a psychologist for the anxiety.”

“If you injure yourself, get it looked at straight away.

Get physio as soon as possible and follow what they want you to do.

u/Seaworthiness_Jolly

21.

“If the relationship didn’t work out, it’s not meant to be.

Don’t spend months/years stuck on it.

“Stop caring about other people’s opinions.

You do you.”

u/razmuff

23.

“Do the impromptu stuff.

Once everyone in your friend group starts having kids, it’s over.

We had poker nights, console games, golf, etc.

“Don’t worry if you have chosen the wrong profession.

I’m 35 and made a career change at 33.

It was the best thing I did.

There is enough time and opportunities to do something different later in life.”

u/demmie0

If you’re over 30, what advice would you give to younger folks?

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