Get in loser, we’re getting over our ex this year!

We asked theBuzzFeed communityto share theirbest advice for getting over a breakupand detaching from an ex.

Here’s what they had to say:

1.

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“Take the time you’re gonna wanna grieve.

My 3.5-year relationship ended, thankfully, amicably, because we wanted different things for our future.

“Dont blame yourself for the relationship ending.

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Once time has passed, ask yourself if the relationship was worth your time and effort.

You did the right thing.”

“If you could, make a run at change your scenery for a little while after a breakup.

Screenshot from "All of Us Strangers"

“Keep doing your hobbies and maybe add new things!”

9.You dont break up and trade down!

“Dont look back.

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Keep it movin.”

That’s why there are unforgettable moments, inexplicable things, and incomparable people.”

14.Lastly, “Write out whatever you feel in the moment.”

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A person is tearful while another's hand gently touches their cheek, depicting a moment of emotional intimacy or comfort

The image displays a GIF of a woman expressing sadness, with the text "You can't make someone like you."

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Person on sofa with subtitle "Embrace the change" from HBO's Insecure

Screenshot from "Mad Men"

Woman speaking, text overlay reads "ON TO BIGGER AND BETTER THINGS"

Man in a suit jotting down notes on a sofa, possibly reflecting on relationship topics