If she wanted to have sex with me, whatever.
Not my sin, not my problem."
These men revealed what it’s actually like having sex with people who are “taken.”
Their experiences were all pretty different, and very eye-opening.
She was very upfront about being married and hadnt had sex in a year.
Ive always been attracted to older women, so I really didnt care if she was married or not.
‘Its not my marriage.’
But looking back at it with a strictly physical view, I dont regret it at all."
u/rejected_reality23
2.
“I met this married woman at a coworking space on an away trip.
She was a very hot woman with a dark nature who needed validation.
I also needed validation and was incredibly horny and somewhat inexperienced.
The sex and chemistry were incredible, and the whole thing produced an excitement of epic proportions.
Two people in pure lust and passion, forgetting everything about their roles and expectations.
It was easy to surrender to pure animal instincts.
u/chobolicious88
3.
“I slept with [a married woman] who was in an open relationship.
So, it was nice to get laid and have someone to have physical intimacy again with.
There were clear boundaries, knowing it wouldnt go any further than sex.
I also wasnt allowed to scratch or rub her back when we weren’t having sex.
u/TheLoneBackpacker
4.
“She came onto me hard.
I was horny and alone, so I went with it and enjoyed it a lot.
But I’m a relationship person, so I started to yearn for something more.
Looking back, our relationship would have been doomed from the start.
I wouldn’t have ever trusted her.
I think cheating is repulsive, and I cannot be an enabler for someone doing it.
When I see a ring, I turn myself off instantly.
u/Wokmichelin
5.
There was a married woman at work who would hang over me all the time.
I knew it was wrong, but I let it happen.
Or how I would lay sweaty and naked on his side of the bed while he worked.
It honestly led to me having much better self-esteem.
It made me think I was worthy, which led me to find my wife.
u/Glad-Midnight-1022
6.
“I was 29, and I met this married woman with two kids at my gym.
She and I developed an Instagram messaging relationship that got flirty real fast.
“That continued on for six months.
But, like, all good things, they must come to an end.
Im so glad I did because her life was even more complicated soon after.”
u/ForsakenToday8487
7.
If she wanted to fuck around with me, fuck it not my sin, not my problem.
So this kind of shitty behavior on my part went on for many years.
Ishould’vecared about what the guy felt andshould’vebeen aware that I’m not fucking in a vacuum.
u/3SquirrelsinaCoat
8.
“I was in my early twenties working at a restaurant.
My coworker asked me out, went out for drinks, and then did three more times after that.
I told her I’d help her put the spare on it when our shift ended.
As I was undoing the lug nuts, a car pulled up next to hers.
We slept together on their bed, FFS .”
So, I figure she decided not to go through with it with anyone else.”
u/Triple_Crown14
10.
“Yeah, I did it one time (sadly, I knew she was in a relationship).
The next morning, I felt like complete shit, and I still feel awful about it.”
u/Severe_Assist_6713
11.
“It was mutually agreed upon between me, her, and her husband.
We’re all friends, and he gets a thrill from watching me fuck his wife.
u/FromFluffToBuff
12.
Personally, I would NEVER be the other man knowingly in that situation.
I’m not going to be the person enabling the cheating.
I’m not going to put another guy through that heartbreak.”
u/MasterFortuneHunter
13.
“I was that guy when I was in high school and in my early twenties.
It was the ‘Its not my responsibility to keep you faithful’ jot down of mindset.
I wouldnt continue seeing them after, but I wouldnt lose any sleep over it, either.
Im lucky nothing bad came of it, but at the time I didnt care.”
u/Lookslikeseen
14.
I was young back then and thought it was cool that I was able to ‘steal’ their girlfriends.
Again, back then I thought that was peak performance I was proud of myself.
u/good_guy_judas
15.
Well, one day, things eventually escalated.
I asked him if it was because she dumped him, and he said it was.”
u/AppointmentHot1099
16.
“I was a scumbag.
She wasn’t ‘satisfied,’ and that’s how I justified it at the time.
I knew exactly what I was doing, and I didn’t feel bad at the time.
But now it’s one of those things that I wish I could go back and do differently.
Even if he never found out, it still bugs me.”
When she and I met, we agreed it was just sex and would never go further.
After that, I thought: ‘Fuck this dude.’
Did I ever feel bad?
She hated him, but kept being told by her family that she would ‘learn to love him.’
I just so happened to be the one she wanted to do.”
“That friend-with-benefits relationship lasted for six years until I met my now-fiance.
And because of that, she congratulated me.
u/Gonergonegone
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