These millennials are demystifying the reason they don’t want to have kids is solely because they’re selfish.
“I am a 33M and have no kids.
I have not found anyone who fits that criteria for me, so I have no kids.”
I’m 34."
Natural-Wasabi-7154
2.
“I’m 43, and spayed.
I can be stable for one person but not two.”
boxing_coffee
“Remember to spay and neuter your over 40s people”
kirk-o-bain
3.“Yep.
I’m 35 and had my vasectomy done last year no kids for me.”
Myspacecutie69
“I’m just a slight bit younger, and I also did mine last year.
engr77
4.
“I am 36 here and have no kids.
Agreeable-Survey-631
“I’m 36 here as well.
I had to help raise my brother’s kids when I was 16 or so.
That was enough for me.”
No_Decision9932
5.
“My fiance and I are in our mid-30s and have agreed that we don’t want kids.
Plus, we’re perfectly content being selfish with our time and money.
We have nieces, and we havedogs.
We’re good.”
sightedwolf
6.
“Im almost 42 and no kids.
I have two dogs that are my children.
I have a niece who’s almost 13, and I enjoy being an aunt.
I can verify they are provided for and treated better than probably 90% of the world’s children.
I’m 36 and my husband had a vasectomy.
Willothwisp2303
7.
“A 29F here.
Im a fence sitter.
I dunno, man.
living near you in old age, 2.)
have a close relationship with you in old age, 3.)
develop into adults that share interests and commonalities with you.
Flimsy-Math-8476
8.
“I’m 41, and I think I missed my chance to be a mom.
So…single and no kids.
Sevenswansaswimming8
“Don’t say never, especially if you are devastated.
My mom and dad had me at 40 and 47.
You could always adopt humans or more dogs.
Even be a foster parent maybe.
:]”
Creative-Might6342
9.
Dual income, no kids!
I said in my letter Id have had a baby with him by now.
We both laugh into our champagne.
[sigh]”
“Still happily childfree.
By now, nearing 33, I am happy to say we shall remain childfree.
He feels the same way.”
AmbitiousQuirk
10.
“I’ve been with my partner for 15 years and we both have other goals.
Just having our niece/nephew over for the weekend, the house is trashed in one day.
Alive_Ad1256
11.
“I’m a 36-year-old married F, and I have no desire to have kids.
If finances permit, I would love to foster and/or adopt someday.”
Environmental-Eye373
12.
“Got the snip in 2017.
I’m 33 now, and I still have no regrets.
I dont mind kids, but its just not for me.
ruffroad715
13.
“I’m a 32F and childfree.
I’m currently living the dual income, no kids lifestyle with my partner.”
nalgona-aly
14.
“I’m 38 here, and my wife is 37.
We tried and couldn’t, so it wasn’t much of a choice for us.
jestermx6
15.
“Turning 35 this year, married, and childfree.
That effectively cements my childfree status.
Right_Ocelot_2588
“We have two kids, but I have a suggestion from friends who don’t.
We had kids slightly older than many, so we have experience with both situations.”
itsl8erthanyouthink
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