Here are the eye-opening results:

1.

“Any kind of wedding favor that has the couples name on it and that isnt food.

lbburgess

2.

A beautifully arranged dessert table featuring a white-tiered cake adorned with white flowers, various pastries, and cutlery on a wooden surface

They die, and you might not get exactly what you’re looking for.

Faux flowers today look SO realistic and are much less expensive!

And you’re able to choose exactly what you love.

People dancing and celebrating at a party; a woman in a sleeveless dress and a man in a beige suit are in the foreground, other guests are in the background

shaeshae87

3.

“Champagne towers or champagne/wine poured or opened at each table.

ddblanton

5.

An arrangement of assorted cupcakes topped with fresh strawberries, macarons, and pastries displayed on a mirror tray

24, Virginia

6. u/WillowOttoFloraFrank

7.

“Don’t have a bridal party.

Instead, invest in some entertainment for the guests, like a professional dance number or open bar.”

Bride in a strapless wedding gown smiling, surrounded by bridesmaids in robes, adjusting her dress and hair

Anonymous,New York

8.

“Over-the-top flowers with tons of different types of flowers.

Or, group smaller arrangements and plants that can also serve as favors or name cards.”

Two people are decorating a banquet hall with flower arrangements for a wedding

51, Connecticut

9.

“[You’ll waste so much money] not properly vetting your vendors.

36, Washington

10.

A collection of small potted succulents, each with a labeled name tag including Judy, Kevin, Kyle, and Karson, displayed neatly on a wooden surface

Spend money on other things.”

54, New York

11.

“I may get hate for this, but [skip] the wedding favors altogether.

A table filled with multiple glasses of a clear beverage garnished with fruit and mint leaves, likely specialty cocktails or iced tea, set up for an event

People will snatch bags of candy on their way out, but that’s about it.”

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“Personalized wedding favors!

atolli237

12.

A slice of chocolate cake with icing on a decorative plate, accompanied by a fork on the side

“I was an event coordinator and saw way too many weddings.

Skip the personalized cocktail napkins.

No one pays attention to them anyway.”

Elegant ballroom with chandeliers and floral arrangements set for a formal event, featuring decorative dining tables and ornate candle holders

“The wedding [ceremony].

No one cares; guests are there for the party, food, booze, and dancing.

Spend your money on that.”

u/tjcenter58

15.

“Massive wedding cakes with fondant, etc.

Wedding cakes cost around $7$15 a serving because of preparation and supply costs.

Regular cakes are about half that.”

“Always save money by having regular cakes in the back!

Plus you could have more flavor options.”

47, Florida

16.

“I always tell clients that centerpieces are a good place to save money.

Think about the last wedding you attended before getting engaged…and tell me what their centerpieces looked like.

Most guests can’t remember.

And finally…

17.

“I think big, elaborate weddings are such a waste of money.

“Most of the wedding decorations end up in the landfill, contributing to a bigger problem.”

edgyflower45

Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.