“I was speechless and didn’t know how to react.
We are no longer together.”
Your partner’s home can saya lotabout them.
Here are the shocking moments they shared.
“I visited my now-husband’s family with him on Christmas after we just started dating.
They knew we were coming as his mom picked us up.
His dad was sitting in front of the TV in underwear.
He gave me a hug when greeting me.
Then he went back to watching darts in his very little grayish boxers.
He didn’t talk to me until saying goodbye.
mellie06
2.
“I went to his place, which he shared with his cousin who worked at a hospital.
I couldn’t get out of there fast enough.”
The couch was ripped up, stuffing coming out.
He explained that his roommate had just gotten divorced.
The roommate came in and took care of the baby.
I was questioning dating someone who didn’t see anything wrong with the upstairs.”
“The next morning, he went to work, and I went into his private bathroom to shower.
We live in an arid climate, and this standup shower was fluorescent green from top to bottom.
I mean it when I say covered.
I’ve never seen anything like it.
There was a small round area on the bottom where the water hit the ground.
Anonymous
4.
She had also been painted the garage with imprints of her boobs and ass.”
He had an unfinished basement room with literal nails sticking out of the concrete walls.
It was like walking into a horror movie!"
“Thankfully, he’s learned about the joys of furniture, bedding, and finished walls/fun decor.
Now, our house is fully furnished and covered in fun knickknacks, paintings, and memorabilia.
Also, thankfully, we no longer live in a place with massive venomous spiders.”
strudel_mcdoogal
6.
“I used to date someone who lived in New York City.
I noticed that he had a habit of reusing toilet paper.
One night, I went to his place and used the bathroom.
But, to my surprise, there wasn’t any toilet paper.
When I called out to him, he suggested I use the toilet paper from the garbage can.
I was speechless and didn’t know how to react.
We are no longer together.”
“I went on a few dates with a former NFL player.
Framed jerseys, framed clippings, photo albums it was way over the top.
ellegracenyc
8.
“He had mentioned that he was interested in true crime stuff.
Some dated back years.
That goes far beyond ‘interest,’ as far as I’m concerned.
We dated a couple more months after that, and it never came up again.”
“The large number of tiny teddy bears in the home of a 64-year-old single man.
Plus photos of the ex for extra discomfort.”
radiantdragon12
10.
“I was invited over for dinner.
The apartment was visibly dirty.
Not messy, dirty!
I was in the bathroom, and being nosy, I peered behind the closed shower curtain.
There were dirty dishes stacked in the tub!
I also asked later if I could get a drink.
It was June at the time.
I got the hell out of there shortly after.”
By whole family, I mean about six people ranging from small children to mid-50s.
I looked at the TV to see what they were watching, and it was a porn film.
Anonymous, 58, Indiana
12.
They all shared the same towel for showering and expected me to share, too!
“He had photos of himself all over the place.
Turned out to be an actual narcissist.”
meow_mix
14.
“It seems so obvious now.
The first time I went to my ex’s place was four months into dating.
His apartment had stuff but was stark, sterile, and unlived.
There was a nondescript couch, coffee table, and lamp.
He had no books, even though he taught English.
There were no photos either.
In the bedroom, there was a bed and his work clothes in the closet nothing else.
The bed was pristine and crisply made.
Four dishes in the cupboard, coffee, two mugs, and silverware.
Everything was absolutely spotless…”
the_3rd_degree
16.
The yard and the house were clean and beautifully kept.
The fun started after we finished eating dinner.
She took out a couple of documents and proudly stated that she had just bought 40 acres on Mars.
She asked me if I would be interested in buying Martian property.
I looked at my wife, and the look of complete horror on her face was priceless.
To this day, my wife gets upset whenever I bring this up.”
“I was at my boyfriend’s place for the first time, staying for a few days.
He had gone into the bedroom to change.
I pointed toward the bedroom.
So she said to me, ‘Joey owes me $100.
Could you just give that to me and get it back from him?’
I just told her I didn’t have it.
Joey was so embarrassed.”
luckyangel30
18.
Before we were about to leave I excused myself to the restroom.
I had just finished peeing and noticed there was no toilet paper left.
“I learned that his family is VERY open about sex.
His mom asked me what jot down of vibrator I used during dinner.”
moonlitrat
20.
The roommate had a cat.
And they would NEVER throw things away.
That single carrot in the take-out box would be there until there was no more room in the fridge.
“After months of texting, I finally agreed to take the train to visit him where he lived.
Like, okay, Kyle.”
