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“My ex-fiancee had a bankruptcy he never told me about.
I worked at a car dealership at that time, and we were looking into buying a brand-new vehicle.
He never even told me then.
I asked him at the time if his credit was OK and he said it was OK. With me alone on the loan, it was approved five times over.
As soon as he was added to the loan, they wouldnt even look at the file.”
“The love of my life left me for a ‘checkbook.’
His ex-girlfriend came along and threw money at him.
Bought him a new vehicle and a boat, and eventually a house.
I had some in savings but couldnt compete with that.”
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I later found out that was a lie.
)…investing in high-risk stocks (triple leveraged) and lost over $80K.
I was elated he was finally showing me he was going to contribute to the ‘us.’
It was also intended to be a way to save for the down payment as a team.
It illuminated how irresponsible but disrespectful he was to me.
I think this was when I really began to believe he was motivated by my money.
“He dodged $100K in taxes.
He has been working under the table pulling in $80K a year.
He is a tax fraud.
He’ll never have Social Security or Medicare, and he’s already 59.
Forget it, I’m out.”
“I married young.
We were both working basic hourly jobs.
As time went by, I moved up the ladder, and he didn’t.
All he was interested in was drinking and hanging out with his friends.
He came home with a full-size grand piano and played it once.
He bought a fancy car that cost a ton of money to upkeep.
“I majored in early childhood education and worked two jobs, plus I did babysitting on the side.
Add to that, he’s spoiled, which I brought on myself by not saying no to him.
“I called his bluff, and he asked me for money for shoes.
I had the money, but I was done.
I never returned his call again, which angered him for one reason.
In addition to losing the best he ever had, he lost his meal ticket, too.
Im so happy I didnt move in with him.
He was using me, and I was too blind to see it.
This realization caused me to walk away and end our relationship.”
“My mom was a stay-at-home mom for years before we moved.
My dad found out she had a credit card in her name and confronted her.
She told him it was in case something happened to him or he ran off with another woman.
Not long after the move, he left her for another woman.”
“I’ve been with my boyfriend for over seven years.
We were best friends before we got together.
We both had good jobs and good heads on our shoulders and were working toward our goals.
It’s now been five years since then and he still has no job.
All he does is play video games 24/7.
I’m so tired.”
He lied about everything.
I paid for everything.
I was in that relationship for seven long years.”
“Finances got in the way when we had a restaurant.
Margaritas were also involved, so my mouth was uncontrollable and my words cut like a knife.”
“After 59 years, I divorced him.
He was irresponsible and abusive in every way, including financially.
He moved all his retirement income to accounts without my name and removed me as a beneficiary on everything.
He had no life insurance.
He never helped with household chores.
He borrowed money he never repaid.
He pissed away nearly $300K in marital funds.
He was physically, emotionally, and verbally abusive.
He cheated on me and raped me.
Diverting marital funds was the last straw.
