Sometimes love conquers all, and sometimes it doesn’t.

yo proceed with caution.

“I think like with all dating, it completely depends on the individuals.

Anne Hathaway and Nicholas Galitzine in "The Idea Of You"

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2.

We’re on the same page and are equal partners.

Is it probable that I may need to take care of him as we age?

Quinta Brunson in "Abbott Elementary"

Yeah, it’s statistically likely.

But life is unpredictable, and you never know what will happen.”

butthatsnoneofmybusiness

3.

Cecily Strong and Bill Hader on "SNL"

“Im 38, and my husband is 54.

His children are all in the military, and blame him for his ex-wifes suicide.

I also helped him when he was in a bad car accident while on the phone with me.

An elderly man and a young woman, both smiling and wearing casual shirts, walk arm-in-arm along a beach with their heads close together

We both almost died, but helped each other through those times.”

“My mother believes in past lives and thinks we somehow had a past life together.

Its been 16 years now, and I havent wanted anyone else beside me but him. "

An elderly man with glasses holds a wooden cane while a younger person's hand rests reassuringly on his

megro108

4.

“Im 27 and currently dating a man who is 65.

I asked for his number, and since then, we have hit it off.

An elderly person in a wheelchair and a younger person standing beside them look out a window, sharing a moment of closeness and care

He takes me out for dinner, walks me home after work, and makes me smile and happy.

He has such an upbeat, trendy, and young energy (which I am so attracted to).

Things are going well, and Ive never been happier in my life since meeting him.”

A couple walks arm-in-arm down a forest path

barbiebanana

5.

“My mom was 26 when she met my dad, and he was 65.

My parents loved each other.

A woman in a low-cut top leans in closely to a man, gripping his shirt. A cocktail sits on the table between them

But, my brother’s wife did because my dad helped them financially.

“When I was 30, I started dating a woman who was 46.

She was super hot, but very immature.

Man kisses woman’s cheek as she smiles, embracing each other

The sex was great, but I felt like the adult all the time.

I felt like a parent and was constantly telling her not to do stupid things.

She would end the bars with her 19-year-old daughter, and constantly wind up in bad situations.

Taye Diggs and Angela Bassett in "How Stella Got Her Groove Back"

Idk it was hell.”

u/lapandemonium

7.

I feel like a real piece of shit about it.

I also do my best to make his life good.

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8.

“I was in a relationship with a man 25 years my senior.

The age gap didnt really hit until I visited my parents at their retirement community.

andream47735d829

9.

I dated more men my age during that time, and they all ended up being less mature.

I had never given a younger person a chance before, but Im glad that I did.

messylight38

10.

“My parents have 20 years between them, and the generational differences are their number-one biggest issue.

My dad expected my mom to listen and maintain the house and fit in a box.

He couldnt work, and his whole sense of self crumbled.

My mom stepped up, went to nursing school, and became the ‘breadwinner.’

aceofkace

11.

“My friend’s mom was 28 when she married a man who was 82.

They didn’t think they would be able to get pregnant, but evidentially they could.

Her husband died four years later at 86, leaving her to be a single mom.

Besides that, they had huge issues on both sides.

u/AbbyJensen

12.

“My friend is 27 and her boyfriend is over 50 years old.

This is because she is almost like a stepmom, but the age of a friend.”

u/No1butme23

13.

I now prefer to date men at least my age up to 10 years older.

lilgem48

14.

“I married my husband when I was 22 and he was 44.

His oldest daughter is four years younger than me.

Weve been married nearly 20 years, and my step-kids and I are really close.

I cant have kids, so thats not an issue.

kimharmon04kh

15.

He’s very loving, and would do anything for our family.”

mindy14

16.And finally, “I’m 24, and my partner is 55. gravitygemz

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