“A lie from porn is that women don’t use vibrators while having sex.”

Reddit userladyonchainasked the community, “What is one myth about sex thatpornmade you believe?

Unfortunately, some positions just aren’t as spicy as they seem.

Kate Moennig and Kehlani on "The L Word: Generation Q"

Note: These submissions don’t reflect a universal experience of sex acts people dislike.

Everyone’s story is different.

“Shower sex looked so fun.

Cardi B. on "SNL"

u/kms62919

2.

I have no clue why anyone would try it.

An unprepared butthole is no place for a penis.”

A woman in a lace bodysuit sits on a bed in an intimate pose with a shirtless man embracing her from behind

u/InevitableAd9683

3.

In reality there is a bit more clean up.

u/kitjen

4.

Close-up of two hands gripping white bed sheets tightly. Long, dark hair is visible

“That choking, gagging, and tearing up when giving head is enjoyable.

Clearly its not also having your head pulled towards the crotch so the dick is further in your throat.

u/uhhh_yeh

5.

A hand reaches toward a long, purple sex toy placed on a white bed

“A lot of what we see in porn is VERY kinky.

It also means a lot of men truly devalue women who enjoy it.

It’s unfortunate.”

A woman and a man, both shirtless, are lying in bed. The man is kissing the woman's shoulder while she looks away

u/Delicious_Air7000

6.

I played that poor girl’s pelvic floor like a drum…”

u/theblondebasterd

7.

“That women dont use vibrators during sex.”

A couple intimately embraces in bed, with one partner gently caressing the other's chest. Their faces are close, sharing a tender moment

u/auracurious

8.

“I always thought you started out with a 10-minute blowjob before sex.

“When a guy enters the vagina, you’re able to ‘really tell.’

A man and woman in a masked embrace, kissing passionately. Woman wears a corset; man is shirtless with a mask

u/thisisnotausername50

10.

And you don’t just tear off the clothing and start bumping immediately.

Grabbing her, pawing at her, and kissing her doesn’t make her wet right away.

A shirtless man and woman are lying entwined on a bed, with the woman's eyes closed and hand gripping the man's shoulder, suggesting an intimate moment

u/judisbreakfastinbed

12. u/dueceswild77

“I tried this with an ex.

She started laughing and asked, ‘Why do guys do that?’

I asked, ‘It doesn’t feel good?’

A couple embraces intimately in a dimly lit bedroom

and she said, ‘No it doesn’t do anything.’

I haven’t done it since.”

u/Longjumping-Bat7774

13.

“Oh my god, so many.

The biggest is that sex and intimacy are always this glamorous thing.

Bodies on anyone outside of the industry do NOT look that ‘perfect,’ nor are the positions realistic.

u/Snoo-54454

14.

“you could thrust six times a second for a long time and it’s still pleasurable.”

u/Guardian_fire

15. u/IfYouSaySoFam

16. u/Barfignugen

17.

“That sex isn’t tiring.

After 20 minutes it’s like I ran a marathon.

Take a quick water break, then get back to the race.”

u/Dragonfire14

18.

“You absolutely have to make noise to be sexy to your partner.

u/DixieCruise25

19.

“That I should expect my partner to eagerly want sex frequently without effort.

These expectations would just turn me into an asshole.”

u/MyGoodApollo

20.

“All girls like a big dick.

Some girls have actually been afraid, while others were in pain and had to stop.

It’s not all fun and games.”

Turns out that’s not the case.

u/ThrowAwayFoodMood

Note: Some submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.