Love hurts, man.
Well, their warning signs, red flags, and big indicators were pretty darn enlightening.
just proceed with caution.
I wasn’t cheating, nothing messed up I just stayed out."
u/turbo_fried_chicken
2.
Arguably, you could say that you are starting to no longer care about their happiness."
u/jjcnc82
3.
“[You don’t want to be intimate with them anymore].
After years of abuse with my ex-husband, I looked up if I was asexual.
Now I fuck every morning with my new man (sometimes multiple times a day).
It’s been years.
Who knew that being pushed around is a libido killer?”
u/classicgrinder
4.
He started with, ‘Why is work the only thing you ever talk about?
(it wasn’t).
But realizing that I actually had stopped telling him anything at all was the real kicker."
u/Sostle_81
5.
“Having a sense of dread about them.
You may not notice it, but it’s been a long time since you’ve initiated anything.
“You don’t want to work things out.
u/888277499991
6.
“When you stop caring, even to get angry.
u/MangoSalsa89
7.
“I can’t stand the sight of him.
I never got over it because it was a deep betrayal that I never expected.
Now I know who he really is.
There were so many other things along the way that I overlooked, but this was the end.”
u/Substantial-Bag5141
8.
“You stop going to bed together.
People do it so they can have quiet time to themselves.
u/Hefty_Peanut2289
9.
“Everything you loved about them just starts to irritate you.
It’s like you’re able to’t find one thing that you like about them anymore.”
u/030117
10.
“I am very much a giver, but the second it’s not reciprocated, I’m out!
u/WastelandViking
11.
“When you lose the energy to confront the challenges that need confronting.
I spent way too long on my last relationship.
It got to the point where the same arguments kept repeating.
u/NatSocEmu
12. u/cfresh12
13. u/loveandbenefits
14.
“I may notice a decline in her desire to hug, kiss, or touch my partner.
Physical closeness that once felt natural might now feel forced or uncomfortable.”
u/princessaww24
15.
“The way you say their name.
u/phantasybm
16.
“One girl I dated, we would talk on the phone every weekday night.
I started to dread receiving those phone calls when I realized I wasn’t attracted to her.
u/HighFiveKoala
17.
Thats when I realized I wasnt in love anymore.
Thats when I realized I wasnt in love anymore.
It wasnt fair to either of us at that point.”
u/Embarrassed_Honey711
18.
“Honestly, man, you just know.
The thought of losing them stops scaring you.”
u/OhReallyReallyNow
19.
“With my long-distance ex, it became a chore to call them daily to talk about our days.
I felt such relief and a sense of freedom whenever we hung up.
u/defnotnatalia
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