“Im feeling kinda weird about using my winnings for something that doesnt involve me at all.”

How people choose to handle finances in relationships is a personal decision.

Maybe one partner pays for dinners out while another pays for experiences and activities.

A couple is sitting on a couch, looking intently at a laptop while the woman holds documents

Whatever the situation is, that’s between two people.

My girlfriend, Sarah (25F), and I have been together for three years.

Recently, I won a bet on Stake and ended up with a decent chunk of spare cash.

A man sits on a couch with his head in his hands, expressing distress

Naturally, I was pretty stoked about it.

Im starting to wonder if Im in the wrong here.

So, AITA for not wanting to pay for my girlfriends girls' trip?"

A Reddit post from a 27-year-old male asking if he's the jerk for not wanting to pay for his 25-year-old girlfriend Sarah's upcoming girls' trip with his winnings

This person had a very interesting take that I agree with.

A person received a monetary prize and is seeking advice on whether they're wrong for not wanting to spend it on their girlfriend's girls' trip

Reddit comment by TerrorAlpaca defends the original poster, advising them to stand their ground and not spend money on their girlfriend due to her entitled behavior

Reddit comment criticizing person for wanting to keep their money separate while spending their partner's money, calls the person greedy and selfish

Reddit post by Apprehensive_Pie4940 discussing relationship boundaries, manipulation tactics, and financial independence.

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