TIL: you should never call a man a “nice guy.”
“‘You’re just like your father.’
That one hits deep and can trigger all sorts of introspection or panic.”

u/Firefly_Jobrofan
2.
“The vulnerability he expressed being used as a weapon later on because she knew it would hurt him.
That’s pure malice.”

u/trentsuncloud
“Using something you never told anyone else against you.”
u/Personal_Term3858
3. u/aakash_is_legend
4.
“To me, the most hurtful thing was getting nothing at all.

That sentence sat in my head for months.
After 3 years I got ‘I don’t know’…
I’d rather get told anything else than ‘I don’t know.'”

u/ControlForward5360
5.
“‘Is it in yet?'”
u/UndeadSickness
“Or better: ‘Is it over?'”

u/angryomlette
6.
“‘His jokes are funnier.’
Might as well be saying you want a divorce.”

u/Heressomeadvice99
7. u/erazedcitizen
8.
“‘It’s not yours.'”
u/BearsGotKhalilMack
“This should be a crime!”

u/GoDavyGo
9.
I never really gave a shit about anything else.'"
u/IcariusFallen
10.

“‘You’re not enough for me; I’m moving on to better.'”
u/True_Career6642
11. u/Kind-Cover7069
12.
“For me, it would be hearing, ‘I don’t respect you anymore.’
Respect is a cornerstone of any relationship, and losing that can feel like losing everything.”
u/VioletAdrienne12
13.
It’s like all those moments of supporting them suddenly meant nothing."
u/BlossomMonica
“It’s this key in of thing that really bothers me.
u/tbombs23
14.
“‘But you’re so nice, how come you’re single?’
u/MariusDarkblade
15.
“‘You’re just a booty call’ to the guy you’ve been seeing for some time.”
u/GH_Explorer
16.
“I lost most of my hair around 25 years old.
I was playing squash with my ex-girlfriend when we started having the discussion during a break.
u/Jujulechaud
17.
I settled for him because I don’t want the hassle.'”
u/CruxReed
18.
“‘You’re too sensitive, it feels like I’m dating a girl.'”
“My first ex told me this, and I thought it was a me problem.
Turns out there are women who don’t have a problem with sensitive guys (e.g.
my wife).”
u/TrumpetsGalore4
19.
“I was once told that I ‘wasn’t toxic enough.’
I don’t think that really hurt me, but I still think about that sometimes.”
u/captalnAw3s0m32
20.
“You don’t earn enough.”
u/arthantar
21. u/Not3kidsinasuit
22.
“Yours is the perfect size; the big ones hurt.”
u/Tough_Pudding1036,u/thingsfallingapart77
“The intention behind it isn’t bad, but it just feels odd.
Like, why the heck would you say that?
Women, don’t say that, even if your guy isn’t insecure about his size.”
u/VoyagerKuranes
23.And finally: “You’re a nice guy.”
u/Chance_Zone_8150