Etiquette experts share the faux pas to avoid while you’re at another person’s home.
Smith, president ofMannersmith Etiquette Consulting.
Wait for the host to give you the go-ahead to touch or interact with things you see.
Until that happens, quickly ask for permission if something strikes your fancy.
Expecting a tour
Dont demand a tour of someones home, Leighton urged.
Wait to be invited by your host.
Overstaying your welcome
Know when its time to leave, urged Leighton.
The number one complaint we hear from hosts is about guests who overstay their welcome.
You might still be enjoying your nightcap or get the sense everyone is having a great time chatting.
Hiding a mess
Unfortunately, things happen when youre in another persons home.
You might accidentally spill red wine on the carpet or knock over a lamp.
Dont ignore or attempt to hide it.
Snooping
Refrain from peeking in cabinets and cupboards, Smith advised.
But resist the urge to look inside the medicine cabinet in the bathroom.
Bringing an uninvited plus-one
Never show up with an unexpected plus one, Gottsman said.
But that doesnt mean you’re free to extend an invitation without getting the go-ahead.
Even if its a casual gathering, shoot the host a quick text to ensure.
Dont just expect the meal to be vegan-friendly or not contain any of your allergens.
Dont feed the hosts dog under the table unless you ask your host first, Gottsman said.
The dog may have an allergy or be on a special diet.
Disrespecting shoe rules
Shoes on or off tends to be very individual specific, Smith noted.
Listen to what your host prefers.
Be prepared to remove your shoes if asked, Leighton said.
Smith also believes hosts should be prepared for their ask.
Hosts will also need to understand if the guest declines.
Fashionistas prefer to keep their shoes on as part of their ensemble.
Interfering with the setup
Dont switch place cards at the dinner table, Gottsman advised.
However, theres no need to be too extravagant or overthink the hosts gift.
Pick up a nice bottle of wine or a bouquet of flowers.
Its the thought that counts.
This article originally appeared onHuffPost.
