Recently, weaskedtheBuzzFeed Communityto tell us whichromance moviesare devastating, but are still worth watching.

Here are 21 of their top responses:

There are obviously MASSIVE spoilers ahead for several movies!

Three stills from "The Notebook" showing Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams in an emotional confrontation scene

Ryan Gosling and Emma Stone in three closely cropped scenes from a movie. They both appear to be in a serious conversation

Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams in scenes from a movie. Ryan wears glasses, and Michelle appears distressed by a kitchen sink. Ryan kisses Michelle's forehead

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Top: Jennifer Garner in a kitchen, talking energetically. Middle: Eric Bana listening attentively. Bottom: Jennifer Garner continues speaking

Three scenes from "Moonlight" featuring Trevante Rhodes, Andre Holland, and Ashton Sanders. First, Trevante stands alone, second, Trevante and Andre embrace, third, Ashton faces the ocean

Emilie de Ravin and Robert Pattinson in three stills from a movie. They appear serious and contemplative in the first two images, standing apart in the last

Kate Winslet and Leonardo DiCaprio in a tense scene from a movie, wearing casual clothing and standing in a dimly lit room with a bed and a window with curtains

Rooney Mara and Cate Blanchett in a cafe scene from the film "Carol." Rooney wears a plaid hat, Cate wears a green cardigan. Rooney takes a photo of Cate

In a scene from the movie "Past Lives," characters Hae Sung (played by Yoo Teo), Nora (played by Greta Lee), and Arthur (played by John Magaro) have a heartfelt conversation about relationships

Vanessa Redgrave, Keira Knightley in a beach scene from "Atonement." Redgrave appears close-up and serious; Knightley is dressed in 1940s attire, walking by the shore

Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze sharing an intimate moment in a series of close-up scenes from the movie "Ghost," touching each other's faces tenderly

Hilary Swank and Gerard Butler in three scenes from the movie "P.S. I Love You," set in a picturesque rural landscape, displaying a mix of emotions and tender moments

Still from scene in TV show or movie. Woman sitting on floor looking up (top), man in beige suit and bow tie looking up while standing near a basket of vegetables (bottom)

Scenes from the movie "Brokeback Mountain" featuring Heath Ledger in various outdoor settings, wearing cowboy hats and rugged outerwear

Ewan McGregor and Nicole Kidman in scenes from the movie "Moulin Rouge!" They are dressed in period costumes with elaborate accessories

Top: Haley Lu Richardson in hospital setting. Middle: Cole Sprouse standing in medical facility. Bottom: Haley Lu Richardson wearing a mask in infirmary

Top: Close-up of Hugh Jackman with an intense expression. Bottom: Close-up of Rachel Weisz wearing pearl earrings. Both images are from the film "The Fountain."

Emilia Clarke and Sam Claflin share an emotional moment in a scene from the movie "Me Before You."

Art gallery wall with various paintings; portrait of a young woman in the center; close-up of a painting showing a hand holding a book

Mandy Moore and Shane West are in a three-part sequence from the movie "A Walk to Remember." They are emotional and facing each other closely