I love him a lot, and he has been pretty amazing to me.
“Just for context: He has two female friends and three male friends.
This is about my bf and one of his friends, Claire (female, 28).
Claire is a nice woman, and we are friendly.
Which is why I don’t understand if I’m in the right.”
“They (my boyfriend’s friends) had a recently escalated prank fight.
“I still feel weird about this.
My boyfriend says that not hiding it from me shows I’m the problem.
I really feel awful about this whole thing.
Am I the asshole?”
“You aren’t blowing this out of proportion.
“Your boundaries were disrespected, and I’m glad you know your worth and left.”
This person shared a similar experience with their ex-fiance.
“My ex-fiance was gifted lingerie on friendship day by her male best friend.
I was extremely uncomfortable.
As a man, no man buys a woman’s underwear unless he wants to see her in it.
You don’t buy sexy lingerie as a joke gift.
The ‘prank war’ is just an excuse that gives him deniability because he is a coward.
Here’s theupdate:
“To the actual update, my bf and I broke up.
I’m still in love with this guy.
And he called me, like half a day after I wrote this post, and asked to meet.
I asked him what sort of ‘dynamic’ was red lingerie.
Why couldn’t it be literally any other pop in of clothing?
“That hurt a lot.
He had always known I had insecurities about being called boring.
He always complimented me on how his weaknesses were my strengths.
Now he says things like this to me?”
I asked him if my bf ever cheated on me.
He said my bf had only been a ‘one woman man’ when he was dating me.
I told him to fuck off and blocked him.”
“It felt like he only wanted to gloat and hurt me because my bf left.
I feel like I never knew these people.
Claire and Kyle were always at least decent to me, if not nice.
“I don’t know what to do now.
I have been told repeatedly by both my friends and sister that I dodged a bullet.
But I have been breaking down like a kid again and again.
